So i dated this girl for five years. We broke up because she got heavly involved in a local ministry, and she told me that she needed to put God first in her life, and that she had always put me first. (What can you say to that?) It has been a year and a half since we broke up and we have stayed in touch through causal phone conversations and text messages every now and then. Last week she kept texting me and calling my phone off the hook....so i decided to ask her out....She said that she would love to, and we had a blast she told me that she loved me, and that there hasnt been a day gone by that she did not think about me. We kissed (the kind that takes their breathe away) hah...I told her goodnight and I asked her if she would like to go out again sometime....she said she would love to. Today I asked her if she would like to do something Friday night, she told me she has plans with some of her girlfriends.....so i acted normal, like it wasnt a big deal. I need help guys....how do you handle a situation like this? I figured if she was reall intrested then she would have suggested another day to go out....but she didnt.....so do i withdrawl all contact and wait for her to make a move?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
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Yeah just withdraw contact and she should make her move for you eventually if there is genuine interest there.
Still why do you want to be with a girl who puts everything other than you first in her life?
I'm genuinely curious.
Still why do you want to be with a girl who puts everything other than you first in her life?
I'm genuinely curious.
tucking fypo
Don Juan
make sure that SHE isnt first on your first priority list
tease her, give her alot of attention and then stop giving her attention, always have the mentality that you are the prize should be already pretty basic to you.
manipulate her if u want to be with her sorry but thats the way it is ,either play the game or be an afc and lose the girl.
follow the dj mentality and you'll be fine just dont have major one its/ be an afc.
tease her, give her alot of attention and then stop giving her attention, always have the mentality that you are the prize should be already pretty basic to you.
manipulate her if u want to be with her sorry but thats the way it is ,either play the game or be an afc and lose the girl.
follow the dj mentality and you'll be fine just dont have major one its/ be an afc.
The key is balance.Landon said:
Act on your intentions, heart and desires
But not at the cost of your respect, hurt and pain
I suggest give her the gift of missing you. It's a great gift because it works in such a way that what once was abundant is now scarce. Nintendo used this concept to sell the wii and it worked. Same with every great seducer in the history of man.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That is amazing....the gift of missing me....hell it worked for a year (since we broke up) I have found that reading yalls post and the articles is really helping me to keep my head on straight and not go with my emotions.....emotions are strong sometimes....and wrong sometimes
