"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I need help with Quickness

Basketba1100

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I play basketball for fun during my free time, but I wanna start taking basketball serious now.....maybe even try out for a college basketball team. My biggest problem is quickness, I think it is both a mental and physical thing. Anybody know what I can do to better my quickness mental and physical?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pick a line or crack on the ground. Put your feet together just on one side of the line. Jump to the other side of the line. Repeat and go as quickly as possible.

Wind sprints.

Pick a spot on the wall that you think you can reach jumping straight up(a brick wall is good, pick a brick). Repeatedly jump and touch it.

Alexi
 

ScrewIt

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the only true way (and you all know it!!) is to have low body fat. Pure muscle = agile. why do you think atheletes, well...are athletes..

you know what you must do...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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