"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I need help with day game! Facing constant resistance

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Masculinity said:
Assuming that the women who gave you their phone numbers are genuinely interested, you've a 56% success rate. What are you wearing when you meet these women? Do not compliment a woman's beauty, not to mention that "she is stunning." It appears to me that you're applying too much textbook game--the kind that is canned and premeditated. These tactics prove successful initially, but will only limit your social capabilities as you progress with women (e.g., "Can I get your opinion" opener or "You're absolutely stunning.")

I need more information and details to help you. Are you wearing a tank top when you approach? Are you huge? Do you smile too much? Are you trying too hard that you may be coming off as desperate? These are tough questions to answer or even consider. However, I think they may help you.

To answer your questions

1. I am dressed casually, jeans + sweater+ nice shoes+ clean shaven and a good haircut.

2. I am NOT huge, actually 5'8 and very lean (not skinny).

3. Yes, I do smile ( A BIG SMILE), even while i approach.

4. I do not know if I am trying too hard, but I do most of the talking to the point where I dont want any awkward silence

Take this for example...I approach this Hb8 at the grocery store. She is alone in the isle, just looking at grocery list, long blonde hair, super tight body, and beautiful face. As I walk up to her and tell her, can you help me pick out an ice cream flavor for a date this evening.....this is how she responds.

"Suuuuuuuuuuureeeeee"....with a total nervous looks on her face. Most of these girls have a lost look on their face like they just lost track of where they are or is this really happening to me? I then do whatever I can to make them laugh or make them comfortable. I am not worried that I will freak out, its more like how to keep them from being freaked out. But u know what the funny thing is, even they are freaked out they start talking about themselves , like what they study, why she lives here and etc. I am like WTF? Why are freaked out if you are willingly talking to me??? and btw when I say freaked out, I mean have a slight nervous look on the face like the look on people's faces who don't know where they are going.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They are spoiled fruit bro.


It says nothing about you.

You are a man, a proton going through space. They are stuck thinking they belong in hollyweird.

Its a tough time to be a man nowadays...just stop putting whiny posts.

Its lonely at the top.

If u were in California id show u out. No homo.
 
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