"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I need help with a worthy challenge for....

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Ok so idecided on the 14th of this month to write down EVERYTHING in this book of mine good or bad about my sucess or lack of it with women.

basically in this book i put my fears,problems, what i can improve on and challenges.

Basically i never approach and need to get this done....i've even changed the way i look to suite ME and not the girls...so this should make me look more comfortable and hopefully girls will pick up on this.

Ok so what i'm asking is if anyone has any challenge they want me to do tonight when i go clubbing?....and once i've got a few here i'll name the one i've decided to go for.

I'll write it into my book and put on here the outcome and i'll update this thread every other day to update peeps on my progress.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow good idea. I don't know exactly where your at or how confident you are so i'm not really sure what type of challenge to give you. You said your going clubbing tonight so I guess my challenge to you is don't get tied up with just one girl tonight try to sarge at least 3 if not more and if possible # close 2 of those. It's a good start. Like I said not really sure where your at in your DJ'in, so that may not really be a challenge to you or even talking to a girl might be a challenge to you. Good luck
 

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mpimpin said:
Wow good idea. I don't know exactly where your at or how confident you are so i'm not really sure what type of challenge to give you. You said your going clubbing tonight so I guess my challenge to you is don't get tied up with just one girl tonight try to sarge at least 3 if not more and if possible # close 2 of those. It's a good start. Like I said not really sure where your at in your DJ'in, so that may not really be a challenge to you or even talking to a girl might be a challenge to you. Good luck
Hey thanks for the reply, yeah basically i've got an amazing ammount of confidence and i would say i look above average in looks.But i can't seem to approach any girls yet...although if i do talk to them by bumping into them or whatever...then i'm fine.

So basically the approach is my problem...i think it's a case of what to say, yeah i know it's a cliche but it's true.

So with this book i hope to like evaluate what i did each week and try and find out where i went wrong and what went right for me on that night out.

thanks for your challenges...i've got like another 2 hours before i have to choose something!.

Malachi
 

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