Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I Need Help Urgently Its A Matter Of Hand Or Pvssy

njztruplayer

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Ok here is the story this girl i have known since highschool but lost contact wen i went to college..well we started communicating an here is the convo that followed on myspace

Her:Sorry i didn't reply for such a long time how have u been?am going to Rutger this fall and you should see me and maybe sleep over
Me: Is that an invitation?
Her: Its def an invitation

Here is the problem..she has indicated on her myspace that she is in a relationship..we always had this crazy sexual tension and stuff and i punked out to kiss her so please gimme some advise on how to reply to her come on..critique welcome
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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njztruplayer said:
Ok here is the story this girl i have known since highschool but lost contact wen i went to college..well we started communicating an here is the convo that followed on myspace

Her:Sorry i didn't reply for such a long time how have u been?am going to Rutger this fall and you should see me and maybe sleep over
Me: Is that an invitation?
Her: Its def an invitation

Here is the problem..she has indicated on her myspace that she is in a relationship..we always had this crazy sexual tension and stuff and i punked out to kiss her so please gimme some advise on how to reply to her come on..critique welcome
You want advice, but then you punked out. I'm going to keep this simple.

Don't punk out, make your moves, otherwise as you've learned, she'll eventually be snatched up by another guy. I understand there's risk involved, but the reward is soooo worth it.
 
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