"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I met a foreign stranger on my way to work

DennisSimz23

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I was on my way to work the other week and something strange happened to me. I crossed paths with a foreign guy who I presume isn’t familiar with the area and has recently stayed in my hometown. He seemed distraught, like he was clearly lost. I stopped to ask him if he was okay but then he started mumbling how he doesn’t recall how he ended up here. I asked him if he can remember if he has family nearby or anyone he knows. He said that he didn’t which he started to panic a little. At this point, I started to panic myself. I brought him to the local police station for him to get assisted by anyone there then later proceeded to head to the office. I haven’t heard from him again or what happened to the poor fellow. I still wonder to this day if he’s okay.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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