I messed up with a girl im starting to really like, what to do in this situation?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Oxide

Master Don Juan

Mar 11, 2015

Johnny1986 said:
So if I had a fantasy about tying up her and her mother then slapping and punching the **** out of them while I råpe them in front of her dad it would he perfectly okay to tell her since its just a fantasy and we all have them?

Some things are better left unsaid is the lesson if not anything else. Common sense comes into play here.

Read "Tiny beautiful things"

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.