"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I made the move too late with this girl

TheLastOFUs

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I blew my chance with this one girl who found me attractive it took me a year later to finally have the confidence to ask her out. I got everybody language to show she was attract by me and expected me to do a move. She would always gaze to my eye give me smirks and staring at me and even glances She slowly started acting cold and distant so I knew i **** up.

Found her on social media recently and chatted few times talking about school she ignore few messages here and there but still I decided to ask her out even when she was uninterested through text. I was rejected with boyfriend line, she appears to be single in social media no pics of any guy.

I still see her around new campus at school and at first acted cold still maybe trying not lead me on but now when we are around each other we acknowledge one another and keep walking. We never talk in person only chatted as strangers online. I don't know if is a good idea to finally talk in person for the very first time. I don't want to ignore her completely and seem like a little ***** cause of rejection just play it cool I guess I don't know if I was friendzone because I never talk to her in person just seem she move on. Is there anyway to re interest her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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xstang77

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You need to get past the nervousness, when I was in hs I would ***** foot around and try to do the best friend route first, now that I'm older if I find interest in a girl that in talking to etc I let her know I'm interested in some way. Sounds like you missed your chance but at this point you let her know your interested and that's all you can do, otherwise deffinetly don't wait Around for her because it will probably never happen.
 

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If she knows you're interested, walk away, and see what happens.
 
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