I've always loved the thought of being with an older woman (30-40... I am 21). But like many of you, I hated on the idea of even touching a single mother.
I'll publically admit that I was wrong.
This month I started dating two women (both 30), one of which is a single mother. All of you guys who are my age I gotta tell you that these older women know how to treat a man... period. I've found that girls (yeah, cuz that's what they are) my age are not mature enough to appreciate me for who I am now, and who I will inevitably become.
Both of these women, while significantly older than I, were both intellectually my equal (and not my superior). They recognized this quickly and seemed to be suprised and excited about me.
For all you young guys who work out dilligently and are in great shape, an older woman will cherish you for it. I'm aware of the "boy-toy" pitfall, but as I said above, if you are intellegent and articulate (conversation is key) then she will see you for more than just a hot body to play with.
Let's face it, the idea of some chick raising someone elses kid by herself isn't very appealing at all (for a long time i thought this was disgusting). But I've come to realize that the responsibility and patience such a duty requires helps shape a woman into a good partner.
So young guys, don't limit yourselves and rule out older women and single mothers, as you might find someone who really can understand you and love you for who you are right now.
But if you do limit yourself, then that's just more fun for me
I'll publically admit that I was wrong.
This month I started dating two women (both 30), one of which is a single mother. All of you guys who are my age I gotta tell you that these older women know how to treat a man... period. I've found that girls (yeah, cuz that's what they are) my age are not mature enough to appreciate me for who I am now, and who I will inevitably become.
Both of these women, while significantly older than I, were both intellectually my equal (and not my superior). They recognized this quickly and seemed to be suprised and excited about me.
For all you young guys who work out dilligently and are in great shape, an older woman will cherish you for it. I'm aware of the "boy-toy" pitfall, but as I said above, if you are intellegent and articulate (conversation is key) then she will see you for more than just a hot body to play with.
Let's face it, the idea of some chick raising someone elses kid by herself isn't very appealing at all (for a long time i thought this was disgusting). But I've come to realize that the responsibility and patience such a duty requires helps shape a woman into a good partner.
So young guys, don't limit yourselves and rule out older women and single mothers, as you might find someone who really can understand you and love you for who you are right now.
But if you do limit yourself, then that's just more fun for me