"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I know all the materials, still can't get girls -.- (rant)

Giacobe.KB

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I first discovered about this pick up stuff when I was in 10th grade. Then I was learning mostly from a guy who preached stuff from double your dating. Then I read about the mystery method and when I came her I read the Don Juan Bible and all the Pooks post. Then I came upon real social dynamics and after all this stuff, learning ****y/funny, negs and time constraint, being natural and **** but I keep coming back to these forums to look for more advice. I know what I need to do but it's just not connecting with me.

I am in 12th grade now and almost graduating.

and I still don't know why only the girls below my standards are interested in me. Like holy hell can one of you hot girls please show me some interest for once. Maybe they are showing interest but I am second guessing it but I have never had a hot girl that I talk to start giggling and smiling like one of these uglies that have so much fun around me. I am missing something and I don't know what.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HOT_CHILLI

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Experience. You can study theory for f**kin years and still fall flat if you've had little or no practice.

You gotta balance theory with practice. Im in year 12 too but i have to find to balance theory and practice. If it seems too much to remember while interacting with a hot chick, pick 1 or 2 items like C & F and time constraint and just go with that. Then just add more as you interact with more hot women.
 

COD

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real lessons begin with the book is closed, computer turned off, and u try stuff out. The books/methods are guides not to be regurgitated word for word.

TRY STUFF OUT on get this..............real live chics and stop saying stuff like I DID, it just doesnt work..........START WITH SUSPENDING YOUR DISBELIEF

DO SIMPLE THINGS THEN MOVE ON FROM THERE............today I am going to get 3 girls to smile at me, today I am talking to 5 chics, I am number closing 6 women, etc. AND THOSE CHICS that are not hot............start running game on them for practice. Dude real insight comes from experimenting with a set of instructions.............build on the M3 model, expand on RSD, create your own method, and start writing stuff down in a journal or blogg.
 

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we are about the same age and i use to have similar problems - i got the basics of my game, but it seemed that only those who are unattractive wanted me. then i started expanding upon my game. sure theories and advice are great, but they aren't effective unless you find a way to make them work for you. you gotta go out and practice on any girl - ugly, hot, friend, stranger, ect - and see what works for you. when your game gets good enough and becomes almost second nature, you'll be able to get the hot ones. not saying that you won't get rejected, cus you will, but those rejections will be worth it when you are going on dates with attractive women. so go out and practice and find what things work for you.

hot girls have high standards b/c they are so sought after which is why the don't respond in the same way as these "uglies." the unattractive girls don't get that much attention, so they are easily flattered whereas the hot girls get a lot of attention, so you have to be original in some way to stand out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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