"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I just won $20,000 at the Derby!

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Just thought I'd chime in here.......

I've been betting at the track since I was 15. Me, my brother and a buddy used to study the programs for hours on end all though high shcool and college. We lived for the track. In my first year in college I bought my first racehorse, and also learned how to train them. I have now trained about 100 horses that I've owned myself, and another 50 or so for other owners. Only difference is all of my horses are standardbreds, or harness horses. Gives a person who isnt 100 pounds a shot to get in the horse business.

I absolutely love being wiht the horses-theyre like my kids if I had any, and wouldn't have traded this for anything. I have recently ebgun racing in other states as Im based in Michigan, and the tracks have really been hurt by the casinos. So I've been racing in other states taht have slots and the tracks and therefore higher purses.

As far as betting, I've mainly stuck with the harness horses, and mainly just bet win. Though I do like betting a 3 over 4 over 5 over 5 superfecta. Costs $54 for half and Ive hit some big payoffs with that. When looking at horses to bet I always look at class, driver, present form, and trainer.

Have more to say about this but have to run, will check back in later............
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my dad likes horness racing, says it's easier to handicap, which I believe him.. but I Like to stick with what I know.

Were you at Grate Lakes Downs? I have made a couple of bets there in the past. I stick to Pimlico mainly now. The betters at Fair Grounds and Calder are pretty dumb, so every once in a while I place bets there as well.
 
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I have raced a few times at Great lake downs when they had harness racing, it was known then as Muskegeon Raceway. Pepper ridge won for me a few times there.
 
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