I just wanna be **** buddies

[Lexington]

So I kiss closed on this chick just today. I just gave her a kiss in the car when I dropped her off at her place. It's going to be an extremely busy week for the both of us so we probably won't hang out much until next week. Anyway, there was no discussion of where we stand and such.

I have no idea what she wants, but I'm not interested in a relationship. I don't see it working out long term. I just want to be friends with benefits. I don't plan on bringing up the status of the relationship, but she might.

What's a good way to delicately get the point across that I'm not interested in a romantic relationship as much as I'm just interested in having fun, probably short term (months)?

Honestly, I'm not sure how exactly she'll react. For all I know, she might be delighted with the idea of being **** buddies. But a lot of chicks might consider that slutty, so I want to communicate it to her subtly, if I have to communicate it at all.

As many have said before on this forum, there's no "official" relationship status unless both parties agree to it.

 

[The Bat]

You don't worry about getting your point across about being fvck buddies.

Just like you wouldn't worry about being in a relationship with her.

Keep dating her and keep banging her.

If she asks where you and her stand, then just be honest with her. Tell her you want to have fun and you like having her around.

Girls only think they are slutty when their friends and your friends find out that you two are just fvck buddies. To others, just tell them you're dating so sex seems at least appropriate in their eyes. And when they think it's appropriate and don't judge her or you for it, then she won't feel as slutty about it and will continue being fvck buddies with you.