"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I Introduce you all to an example of why AFC's exist:

skip2mylou781

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I had a date yesterday........not a very good one, i met her on myspace and while very cute, she was quite boring and kinda shy - her best personality feature was that she laughed at all my jokes. Anyway, date ended badly cuz i started being an assh0le to her cuz i was seriously fed up at how boring she was. Here is a post date convo i just had with her today:

Skip2MyLou781: ok so, u were comfortable?
prudebytch: im not afraid 2 hurt ur feelings where as most girls prolly r
prudebytch: i was
prudebytch: because u were being funny
prudebytch: and whitty
prudebytch: most guys can't do that in the begining
prudebytch: but then in the movie
prudebytch: u were getting a little 2 touchy feely
Skip2MyLou781: a little 2 touchy feely?
prudebytch: and that made me a bit uncomfortable
prudebytch: and...
Skip2MyLou781: ok NOW i see where ur problems STARTED
prudebytch: it was just all down hill from there
Skip2MyLou781: i am very touchy feely, and im not gonna be fake and pretend that im not interested
Skip2MyLou781: most girls touch back instead of feeling uncomfortable.....u might just be sexually repressed who knows
prudebytch: r u serious i was playin along w/ it
prudebytch: kissing ur hand
prudebytch: etc
prudebytch: i didn't pull away
Skip2MyLou781: yuea so i thought it was all good
Skip2MyLou781: i know
prudebytch: exept wen the thing was sticking into my back
Skip2MyLou781: YOU were being fake if u played along when u didnt want to
prudebytch: well i liked it but it was foward for a first date

Yea, i bet if guys go out enough with girls like this one, they will surely become AFCs who repress their sexuality because some dumb shy bytch called it "too much for a 1st date" and "too forward"

DO NOT LISTEN TO GIRLS, THEY WILL TRY TO TURN U INTO AFC's DESPITE THAT NOT BEING WHAT THEY WANT

just giving u all a real life example

and yes, she thought i was very hot too, so this is not a case of disinterest due to no attraction
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is a fu'king good post packed with meaning: live life under your terms; do not yield, or let anyone, change you.

Why do should we always take things so personally? The problem arises when we TRY to change due to a girl we meet.
 

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were you going under the bra, or above the bra but below the shirt, or what?
 

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i was cuddling with her and i sucked her fingers (i do it to EVERY girl, no complaints usually).......i did not even try to kiss her!!!! talk about prude trying to tell ME to be an unsexual afc.....i almost died laughing as she was telling me this
 

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Jesus Christ.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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back in the day.....and i mean BACK in the day like 3 years ago when i almost had no game, i woulda taken that to heart, and i woulda been scared to try moves on the next girl i was with.......hell that actualyl DID happen a couple of times!

good thing i can just laugh it off now cuz what SHE doesnt know is that i was ****ing some sexy girl raw just 2 days ago LOL

players CANT get played
 

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call her and tell her to come give you head, see how she reacts.
 

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So question is then...WHO gets girls like that?
I mean, would you not want a non-slutty girl who doesn't let guys touch her on the first date to be your girl?

It sounds to be like this whole forums is ALL about getting EASY girls for a short time.

Fine, you are a player and you get easy girls all the time, while some AFC gets a quality girl?

You said it yourself, it was not a disinterest at all... so you messed up because you go for easy girls.

I
 

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"exept wen the thing was sticking into my back"

I don't even WANT to know what "thing" is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's like you guys are evaluating your skills as a DJ.

Discussing game with a girl you're gaming will only hurt YOU in the end.
 

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i know im never gonna see her agian, so I was getting the last word in on her and calling her a prude basically
 

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How do you know your never gonna see her again? Don't listen to what a girl says but her ACTIONS especially if this was over AIM or whatever. Her actions on the date where reciprocating yours so you know she likes you no matter what she says afterwards. I'd give it a second go, unless you found her extremley boring.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JesterX said:
How do you know your never gonna see her again? Don't listen to what a girl says but her ACTIONS especially if this was over AIM or whatever. Her actions on the date where reciprocating yours so you know she likes you no matter what she says afterwards. I'd give it a second go, unless you found her extremley boring.
her actions also included her acting weird and quiet lol
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
good thing i can just laugh it off now cuz what SHE doesnt know is that i was ****ing some sexy girl raw just 2 days ago LOL

players CANT get played
LOL to the quote.



She said that she liked it - and that it was too much. lol

She "played along" bahahaha, talk about backwards reasoning!

You realize you could bang that girl raw too, right?
 

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wow I love how you guys think that these garbage posts are fvcking genius. Seriously, get off your asses and GO GET LAID!

slackers.
 
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