"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I haven't had sex in a while"

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Two different girls within a few weeks of each other. The first is very cute (24) and banged her the first night. She mentions that she had not had sex in 4 months.

Second is super hot (23) we banged on second date. Right afterwards she also mentions that she hasn't had sex in a "really long time".

I'm thinking in both cases the girls are worried I will think they are sluts and this is their subtle way of telling me otherwise. Why else would they bring this up immediately?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They could be unhappy with their own performance in the bedroom but it's more likely that they're sluts.
 

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Haha those sluts probably had sex the night before. Amazing how women lie about their sexual past in order to not be viewed as a wh0re
 

Between_The_Lines

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It may be a case of one night stands and guys they're "just seeing...nothing serious" not counting in their mind.

I usually ignore those types of testimonials. Probing and/or judging is about the worse way to handle it. They want to feel safe and not under attack of criticism or shaming.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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skinnyguy said:
Haha those sluts probably had sex the night before. Amazing how women lie about their sexual past in order to not be viewed as a wh0re
Yup. Spot on. 99.9999999% chance they're lying.
 

VladPatton

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Her pûssy better be tight as fûck if she says shît like that!
 

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Uncharted said:
Two different girls within a few weeks of each other. The first is very cute (24) and banged her the first night. She mentions that she had not had sex in 4 months.

Second is super hot (23) we banged on second date. Right afterwards she also mentions that she hasn't had sex in a "really long time".

I'm thinking in both cases the girls are worried I will think they are sluts and this is their subtle way of telling me otherwise. Why else would they bring this up immediately?
They are subtly telling you they are not sluts by letting you bang them on the first and second date, respectively? If they don't want you to think they are sluts, they would make you wait 6 months, not bang you right away. Actions trump all.

When you say something to defend yourself, it usually means the opposite.

"I don't care about height" = "You better be 6'1"
"I don't care about money" = "It's the only thing on my mind."
"I don't care about hair" = "You better have thick, lustrous locks"
"I haven't had sex in 4 months/really long time" = "Just got banged a guy 4 minutes ago"

It's sad you can't trust what any girl says these days. :nono:
 

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I thought it would be obvious to you by now.

If a girl is telling you about her sex life, she wants you to be part of it :yes:
 

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Mike32ct said:
Women greatly exaggerate the lengths of their "dry spells."
Very true. With as many thirsty & desperate dudes as there are out there, there is no reason even Honey Boo Boo's mom should experience anything longer than a 48 hour dry spell at most.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nearly all the 20 women ive slept with have claimed they "dont usually do stuff like this"

LOL :crackup:

also another favourite is "i dont remember what happend"

well thats funny considering 4 hours ago you where riding my c0ck like a pornstar

but there we are , you are a mug if you belive any young red blooded woman in 2015 hasnt had sex in 5 months :crackup:

i got several female freinds who have all testified to me they need a man to service them at the very least least once a week :yes:
 
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