"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have stick out ears!!! Girls wont let me approach

Unprez

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Well.. being a real example, i had the surgery done too at 18. Did it help? Absolutely, hooked up with my first gf at 19 after being done.

But did anyone who knew me before and after noticed...nope not 1 person. Not one person noticed the difference except my parents cause I wore a huge bandage around my head in my house! So it came down to confidence, but if u feel u can't get that confidence without that surgery than go for it.

It cost same as hair surgery and really not that big of a deal. But like everyone is saying if u have confidence than it won't matter.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kailex

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I can't wait til you come back to this forum after the surgery... maybe a month or two later and ask why women still won't go out with you even though you had the surgery done.

It will happen.
 

NeedToImprove

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@kailex it may be what you say, being popular with girls is not a easy task, but im sure this surgery will help a lot, i will have a lot more self esteem im sure. plus im working out again and very serious about it.
 

GetOveIT

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NeedToImprove said:
@kailex it may be what you say, being popular with girls is not a easy task, but im sure this surgery will help a lot, i will have a lot more self esteem im sure. plus im working out again and very serious about it.
Meu se vais fazer a cirurgia vais marcar a tua insegurança para sempre...

Dont do it m8 or insecurity will eat you alive lol.
 
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