"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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in order for women to attract to me, do i have to go on a date that is unsually and unique. if so, i really have a hard time choosing locations and stuff like that. I mean, i don't want to just watch movies on first few dates. Also, dinners are to common too. so do i have to be really unique and stuff like that.

any tips?

Another thing, any tips and pointers for quiet type of guys like me?cuz its really hard for me to create conversations and keep them up. i heard some people said set up questions before you go on any dates. is that a good idea?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First of after you've done enough stuff with one girl, you'll find that just about everything you do on a date is fairly routine. I live in a city of endless entertainment and at times I find myself stetching to find original things to do with girls.

Regardless if you think about it for a while you'll come up with something nice to do on a date. Picnic's, strolls in the park, see a play or broadway show, hiking (light or strenuous), race go carts, go skating, etc etc. There are tons of things you can do with a girl on a date if you just think about it for a minute. Of course I don't know where you live or what your surrounding areas have to offer so if you live in Unakelte, Alaska or some place like that where it's really remote, your food has to be flown in, and the nearest mall is 4 hours away, well then I have no awnser for you. But really there isn't too much to finding things to do for dates. Worst comes to worst you ask the girl what she wants to do... just hope you don't end up going to the mall and carrying 20+ shopping bags for her (ugh, haven't done that in a while and hope I never have to again)

Anyway use that grey matter and come up with something champ, its not that serious. Most of the time girls will agree to just about anything that doesn't involve serious bodily injury, like skin diving with reef sharks or something along those lines.
 
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This has been discussed in great detail not but a week ago - with over 100 different date ideas in the thread (I know, because I put them there from one of SoSuave's hall of fame articles). However, that was about the 2183th thread regarding "Where to go for dates"...

If you want to get better at conversation, well there's a whole section of the DJB with articles telling you how to do nothing but that very thing (in addition to the many threads on here).

To sum up everything I just said:

Do a search!
 
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