"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i have never met her

sekstoi

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Hi i have never met my girlfriend, and yes we are just friends we write sms's togheter we have got something going on for years ago and we where just about to met but i ****ed things up and i really want this girl without being a player how do i uses sms's and stuff to get her to go crazy about me and thinking about me all the time and makes sure she's never together with a guy at a party without thinking about me?

i really hope you can help
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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My bed, your girl.
start by meeting her.
be confident, funny, add some ****iness, make her have a good time and want to spend more time with you.
we can't do it for you, but get her attention and make her want you.

about the making sure she's never together with a guy at a party... forget about this unless you want to seem overprotective and jealous (which is a turnoff).
 
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