"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have decided to withdraw from Sosuave

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Yes, I am aware that I'm being petty and overly dramatic....

Yes, I want to make this a public spectacle....

"Look, here's the deal...:" if we can't have open and honest discussions, if threads keep getting locked or deleted on a whim, and if members are randomly banned then there's no point in trying to have discussions on this platform.....

I hereby withdraw from all discussions on this board..... I might drop in from time to time to read what's up, but I will no longer contribute any knowledge, life experiences, insights, perspectives or intel......

Censorship is out of control on this board....

For now, I'll "....stand back and standby....." until there is system change.....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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