I have a question for you older gents.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

skip2mylou781

Banned

Jul 20, 2006

yea have fun and meet lotsa girls so u kno exactly who u wanna end up with! make out, cuddle, get head, get handjobs, w/e lol, u can still have ur fix and stay a virgin

BUT i have had prob about 5+ girls who were all 15-18 tell me they love me more than anything in the world and wanna be with me forever....only to take it back days, weeks, or months later, showing that THEY DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT AT THAT AGE

btw 21+ is an estimation..........i bet if u go for a well brought up girl whos been raised right, she mite have matured sooner than 21, but those dont really e4xist in todays soceity

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.