"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have a hair diilemna

KneghtRyder

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okay this is my dilemna,

i can get numbers from really hot girls when I have my hat on...

Maybe I have good facial features or maybe the hat makes them feel i m safe because i m one of the guys drobe.

anyway, when i dont have the hat on, its a little hard a little more resistence even with girls that are not super hot like when i have my aht on..,I do get rejected more with the hat on. In fact I think my success is like only 10 % of when I have my hat on...thats HOW MUCH DIFFERENT having the HAT makes for me !!

I had a hair transplant, and didn't give me enough hair so I kinda have a balding look Without the hair or just the hair transplant doesnt match so well I dont look so well when i hat is off...maybe I m just guessing at all of this I dont know.

. I know I can pull with the hat, so is that an automatic reason to use it?


HERE is the dilemna part...


I can pull girls with the hat. But.

I dont like wearing a hat. It just feels unnatural.

Even though its not natural this hair transplant, I want a girl to be attracted to me because of what I am uniquely , even if its my looks that I look like now.


So .....give me real intelligent advise...I appreciate it !

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Evolution

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The amount of hair (or lack) does not affect your success with women.

How do I know?

I went did approaches. Went great.

Got a bad haircut.

Went out again and did more approaches.

Same great result.
 

bsthatcher

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I feel your dilemna, son.

My suggestion: Grow out your Pubes and transplant those onto the remaining affected portions of your scalp. But do not tell anybody you have done this. You do not want to be known as the d1ckhead.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Cut your hair really short.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Evolution said:
The amount of hair (or lack) does not affect your success with women.

How do I know?

I went did approaches. Went great.

Got a bad haircut.

Went out again and did more approaches.

Same great result.
Ur totally wrong .. Hairs affects to your look alot .. And look affects to success with women ..
If you arent good looking or at least best of yourself , well-groomed women can shut you down immediately .

Im not saying that u gotta be good looking , but u gotta be best of yourself ..

dont go out with hairs that look that u just woke up .. this will show that ur a slob that dont care about himself .. if u dont care about urself how can u care about someone else (women)???
 
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