"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I have a boyfriend" ... so what

612_Da_Playa

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What are some of you guys' lines when a girl says she has a boyfriend?
I have a lot but they're getting old. One of mine is " Oh tell him I said what's up" lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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nothing to say really... whether it's true or not, it's a pretty stiff strong arm.

"pleasure to meet you" and walk away.

delta
 

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What can you say? It translates into "Hell no, get away from me!" pretty much all the time. Is it even worth bothering to use your charm and wit to come up with something snappy to say on a lost cause?
 

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Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: I've heard that line before.

and then keep talking as if she didn't say it.
 

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I've read on this forum this comeback

You:"So when is the wedding?"

and she'll probably say they're not even engaged or whatnot and you say "It can't be that serious,we can still have a couple of drinks"

But i don't think it's worth the hassle.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i agree that it's a dead end, but if you just want a chuckle, use this line:
(i read it on these forums a while back)

"well i actually have two girlfriends, so now here's your chance to catch up to me"
 

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Has anyone pulled a girl after she said that?

Quite frankly I would imagine you have MORE chance if she's telling the truth. I've used the whole "I've a girlfriend" line too and it's when there isn't a chance in hell I would head back with her.

I actually like a girl when she says that because at least she's civil and quite frankly for those guys that persist you deserve what you get. Sooo many girls have allways said: "That's the problem with guys, no doesn't mean no to them unless you're a ****". Although a few girls have also said they like it when a guy doesn't give up easily (a few I've pulled). Funny that! All girls are different but I think there are degrees of no and this is a BIG one.
 

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You could do this:

Write down on a piece of paper your number and give it to her and say "If you want a ManFriend give me a call"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Just out of curiosity, what do you do when her 6'5, 260 "boy"friend pops out of nowhere and asks what the f*ck that piece of paper was that you just handed to his girl as some of his spit lands on the top of your head?
I'd say, "It was my phone number."
I'd also probobly throw in, "...And can you cover your mouth when you're talking to me."

(Note: His spit wouldn't land on the top of my head unless he was above me or spit up for some reason.)
 

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Why would you bother comming up with a response. Two cases:

1. She has a boyfriend
2. She rejects you

In either case do you think a line will change anything? Walk away.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Ok, so if you're seven feet tall you don't really have to worry about his spit hitting the top of your head. :p I'm just wondering how you will deal with an irrate, semi-conscious neanderthal of a boyfriend unless you're either A) bigger/a better fighter than him, or B) a law enforcement officer. I'm actually honestly curious, because this is one of the main reasons that I won't cold approach.
Well there is one of four things that I see happening:
1. :cheer: The guy gets his ass handed to him 'proper'.
2. :box: Normal fight. Both guys walk away with a black eye. ...Argument to be settled by rounds of shots (ok, maybe this isn't too likely).
3. :trouble: Guy tries to assault someone who has a CCW (or carries illegally). Bad things ensue.
4. :crackup: You get your ass kicked. Send “Neanderthal” to jail for assault and battery (and whatever other charges you can think up that would apply). Laugh when “Neanderthal” and Bubba get married :flowers: in 2008.
 
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