"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I hate when I do this.

Adam B

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I just recently broke up with my girlfriend and I started to feel bad about it so in order to distract myself from those dumb thoughts I went to the mall with a couple of my buddies. Well when we were in one store a hot girl I kind of knew walks in. I say hey and give her a hug and stuff. All was good. We chatted for a couple minutes and then I just kind of froze. So I said bye, and we just left. I didn't ask if they wanted to hang out or anything. Didn't ask for a number. Nothing. And IT WAS RIGHT ****ING THERE. Damn I feel dumb.

Just thought I should share. What should I do to get back on my feet?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ease

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why dont you just ask her out now

get a phone number or msn from someone who would have it

better than nothing
 

intrextrovert

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Facebook makes everything easy about this, cause you can always get in contact of people you know since 99% of people have one. Add her on it and drop a line, get a convo rolling.
 

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grow some balls faggot, hopefully next time u wont be such a dumbass.

-fckmyashol
 
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