"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

I hate to say this.....

BasicInstinct

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2002
Messages
319
Reaction score
11
Location
Los Angeles, CA
...but I think GP has a better board in terms of functionality. I like how you can see how many views a particular thread has been seen, who the last poster was, who the active posters are, and detailed poster information all in one screen. Yeah I know it would been changing to a totally different board system and I don't know what the logistics of doing this would be, but can you guys consider changing to the GP board? There are so many features they have that this board lacks.

------------------
Always outnumbered, never outgunned.

It's not safe to hope for the best, without preparing for the worst.

"If there's a problem yo I'll solve it,
Check out the Bible while the DJ's resolve it!"
-Inspired by Vanilla Ice
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Giovanni Casanova

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 5, 2002
Messages
5,550
Reaction score
18
Age
47
Location
Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
I agree for the most part. I like the fact that you can see which topics you've posted to at a glance, and the fact that you can automatically go to whichever page you want to view. That board system also has a rating system for being able to rate a post on a scale of (I believe) 1 to 10. The only thing that sucks (about the system itself) is the fact that you can't create an automatic signature... but that's just something that GP.com disabled.

Of course, when it comes to the people who actually post on the forum, and the moderators who take care of things... the DJ board tramples the GP.com board hands down.




------------------
CASANOVA

"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire

"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Did I say something that offended you? Click here
 

trickynick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 16, 2001
Messages
1,741
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
The fact that you two have spent enough time there to know this much about their board interface make you both suspect in my opinion.


------------------
You either own the game or it owns you!
 

cupcake

Banned
Joined
Mar 22, 2002
Messages
9
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada
Originally posted by trickynick:
The fact that you two have spent enough time there to know this much about their board interface make you both suspect in my opinion.


C'mon man...part of being a Dj is knowing what's better and learning how to do better.
 

Amlothi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2002
Messages
541
Reaction score
0
What happened to open mindedness? Personally I always thought this board functionally sucked @ss. I never went to look for alternatives (cause nobody ever listens when you suggest changes here anyway...) but I can see why one might if they thought it would actually matter.

------------------
"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

DeepBlue

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2002
Messages
403
Reaction score
3

Giovanni Casanova wrote:

I like the fact that you can see which topics you've posted to at a glance


You can do that? That is something that I've really wanted to be able to do here. I can easily configure a good newsreader program to do that with Usenet newsgroups, but here I'm at the mercy of the board's software.

In particular I'd love to see, at a glance:

1. Which threads I posted to.

2. Which of those threads got new comments from other posters.

3. Which of those comments where directed to me specifically (easy to see on Usenet via a message tree, but I don't see how it would be possible on the web where the posts are all follow a scrolling format with one above the other).

Currently I find it very time consuming to try to remember which threads I posted to, and to keep checking them to see if someone responded to me.

Usenet is actually more efficient for this, but on the other hand in some ways the approach here is more social. The fact that you see your response and everyone else's together on the same page has an odd subliminal effect of making you feel like you're all in the "same room" as opposed to just reading isolated comments.

DeepBlue
 

glowstix

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 22, 2002
Messages
271
Reaction score
2
gp huh? any good?
 
Top