"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I hate squats.

Mjazz

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I was in the same boat too, until I started doing front squats and overhead squats, now after a couple months of mostly focusing on these 2, Im back with the back squats
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mrRuckus said:
Yeah dude because swearing left and right and threatening to shove a phone down someone's throat is the opposite of "socially retarded."

I'll socialize at the gym if I want to, ok? You don't know why I come to the gym. Maybe I don't have many other places or time to make any friends. I don't particularly want to hear your ****ty music blaring from your cheap headphones at hearing damaging levels (assumption that is usually true for most guys i see wearing headphones while they lift) but I just tune it out.
I guess your the type of social moron that talks on their cellphone during movies cuz he doesn't give a sh*t about other people. Well guess what? Your not f*cking special, there's a million other places where you can make "friends." Judging from your post your a sore insecure loser, who likes to pretend to lift cuz it LOOKS cool. If you don't wanna hear other people's music then bring your own, o wait my bad you like to talk on your CELLPHONE. Maybe if you were lifting you can tell other ppl to turn their sh*tty music down. Who the f*ck brings their cellphones down to the lift area anyways... your the only moron I know who would bring their cell phones while their lifting.
 

shaunuk

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Peter, dude, many people at the gym are confident and cheerful, and wanna socialise a bit while they're there. There's nowt wrong with socialising with those people. And then there's people who want to be left alone, which is fine and understandable. I don't make any effort to talk to them.

We don't all want to act like we're on deathrow while we're training, haha. Talking to people, as long as it doesn't get excessive, can enhance the experience, and they can spot you, etc.

-shaun
 

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I don't mind squats too much, they're hard - But that just means they're working. Better to do squats than to go to the gym and waste my time doing endless curls.

Bulgarian split squats are fun. Bar on the shoulder like a traditional squat. Bench behind you, raise one leg onto the bench so that it's supported on the front of your foot/shin. Then do your squats. Get a nice full range of motion, use heaps of muscles to balance, and it's a lighter weight (as only training one leg at a time) so there's less pressure on the back of your neck/shoulders.
 

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I love squats!

LOL seriously, I do.
The pump I get from my leg / back day (squats, dead lifts) is awsome man. It trumps any pump I get from my chest and shoulder day.

It's totally counter-intuitive. If you would have told me 2 years ago that my arms would feel bigger after doing squats than they do after doing bench presses, I would have laughed at you.

Squats make my flesh throb! :woo:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I struggle with squats... I'm guessing my form is off, because my significantly weaker friends can squat more than me, despite my leg strength and size far exceeding theirs.

The amount of weight I can do is laughable, and I don't really feel like they're doing much. I look in the mirror though and my form seems fine, and my friends say it is too. I just can't understand it.

Leg presssssssss lol.
 
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