"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i hate girls. really. they're a waste of time.

dannowillbookem

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wow i had a ****ty night. i was off. it was obvious. i couldnt for the life of me get this one chick ashley...she still flirts with this other guy constantly.

and then theres this older girl (also named ashley) who's a senior and was all over my buddy. we're sophmores.

i couldnt get anything. i could hardly get male respect, never mind females.

girls are just a waste of time and i'm tired of it. i'm falling apart here. i dont wanna go to some deep antisocial mode but my god i cant take it. i guess school i do okay but i had a pretty off day there to...seems i cant get this one chick to even glance at me, and theres still a popular clique of cheerleaders that i cant for the life of me seem to crack into.

it's pissing me off.

i need a pep talk.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ahh i always have them i know exactly whats goin on in your head. Dont sweat it man your just tryin way too hard impressin a certain girl. THat happend to me just a week ago. 1 thing went wrong and then the rest of the day is like a total wreck. so the next day i was like *Sh*t y am i so down for? Life to short for this sh*t. So the next mornin i woke up really early for school(friday mornin i think, doesnt matter) but i listen to some of my fav. song that inspire me to be a player, chick magnect, Dj. whatever you want to call it but life is too short man. But what helpd me the most was when i listen to my music more confidents was bein flourish within me then i kept remenber this phrase.

Im too young to be sprung
too blessd to be stressed
i tress to impress
my move way to smooth- fabolous
sounds ridiculous yea i know but always try to find a way to build some more confident in you when ever your down and bout to give up on some. THings i do is lift, Listen to music(Theres 2 type of music for me, music that inspire and music that put you in a good mood!)
 

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Yeah Danno I know what you mean. My new school is kind of like that. But even on my first day, and an off day at that, I attracted people. lol.

But like you just have to leave that in the past. Just improve the next day seriously. I plan to improve tommorow.
 

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We all have off days, sounds like ur thinking about it too much and over analyzing. your past is not what ur future holds.
 

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I think the problem is that you're trying too hard.

Focus on working out, and bettering yourself. You have a new haircut, now get a nice body to match. Let your confidence grow and ooze from you.

Then, girls will come to you. Make some trustworthy guy friends, and then the girls that buy into those guys will buy into you.

Patience is key, and it is the ONLY key.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha WOW i was in a ****ty mood when i wrote this.

pretty good day of school, just gotta remember:

1) other people are not the most important thing in my life. right now, passing school is.
2) i cant be affected by how things go socially. i cant let it damage my mood.

and i need to keep some tylenoll on me. lol
 

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oh yeah i actually got rejected for a number today.

i laughed. lol that hasnt happened in so long.

NEXT!
 

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cheerleaders turn it to soririty girls n college...it get's better.. the girl you could never get in highschool you now can have your way with n college... have patience my frustated padawan....lolz jk had to go don juan jedi on ya.


you'll get over it...just have patience
 

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Hey I haven't even aimed for any number closes. I really have to just worry about classes and everything will work out for the best. I got some more chicks interested in me today. And yesterday I thought that school might suck. Well it gets better. Like some hottie in Arts and humanities is all over me today. And like out of 1700 people My Eng. 2 only has 14 people so it should be easy. I am the most DJ in all my classes except some other cool dudes.

Sorry to steal your thread Danno but I figured it might cheer you up. :D
 

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Just think of when you become an uber pimp like none other, you can look back on all these girls and laugh at them regreting that they passed you up.

As it lays now, you have two options:

#1: Feel bad for yourself and get no where, and prove to everyone that you aren't worth their time.

#2: Get angry, get motivated, and use this as fuel to push you to new heights, and prove everyone wrong and make those *****s who passed you up wish they would've fvcked your brains out when they had the chance.

*whispers* "take #2!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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true dat danno, wow first day of school tomorrow! key points:
Dress to impress
Clear head
Dodge haters!
lol well see how it goes
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
true dat danno, wow first day of school tomorrow! key points:
Dress to impress
Clear head
Dodge haters!
lol well see how it goes
i'm in tech class. borrrring lol. yeah man and dont be scared to next.

as u can see from my post that can really drag u down lol.
 
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