"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got a HUGE problem... People think im gay.... HELP!!!

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Don Juan
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A sweet walk is like a female walk. You know how womens hips sway.... something lke that.... I agree with what you say about people's motives behind it, but I want to become more masculine (I know just because I walk more masculine doesn't make me a better man, it's just the appearance/ initial reaction from people.... plus i'm no p####) to stop those types of reactions. Yeah I got a low voice, but like I said, i've been shy my whole life. I don't get hit on by gays (maybe twice with a smile), and nobody has dared to ever say it to me directly. They always have sideways jokes. I think its because I don't have to play tough because I know what i'm about so i'm silly. Mix being silly with soft voice and sweet walk and well, you get the picture.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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