"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i got 8 numbers @ a teen club!!(success story must read!!)

niceguy91

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hey guys...so guess wut? i went to this club called orlandos, and they have teen nights on sundays, and i went there with like 15 other ppl...and well i got 8 numbers and made out with like 2-3 grls. and like i would walk by my self ( cz i didnt like anyone else with me it made it aquared 4 me) and i'd c a girl and idk what came over me but i'd go up to her and b like hey sup? u wanna hit the dance floor with me? and she'd b like what? cz the music was too loud( i did this perpously) and i put my hands around her pulled her in wayyy close and was like u wanna dance witih me? and she was like yeah, i grabbed her hand and went to the floor and i started gettin a boner...and yet again idk what came over me i was like u feel that grl? and she goes yeah and she was like i wanna feel it more. and she got so damn close and sh*t. i got rejected like 20 times but i danced with like @ least 20-30 grls that night. and i got one to tell me that she wants me to pick her up next weekend from her house and go to the movies with me... i've been gettin txts non-stop from the like 8 grls and yeah.

idk what it was but it felt like someone else was controlling me last night. and i was in the back for a lil bit pickin up grls, and these 2 grls were like hey sup? i stopped and was like hey, got inbetween them, and put my arms around both of their waists. and idk y the fu*k i said this but iwas like hey u have some amazing tits..and they were like which one of us? i go both of u ladies..and they go u wanna feel them, and they let me take my hands and grab them and i took myhands up their shirt and felt them. and then the other left and i was left with the total hottie, blonde blu eyes, cheerleader 17 years old...senior( i'm 16 and a junior) and i took my hands and took it down her pants and started rubbing u kno wut. and a guy comes over and she goes oh ****...it was her bf. i go dnt worry i'll handle it. the guy goes back off my grl bro. and i was like dude i'm pretty sure ur grl wants me and she kissed me infront of him and he went away. and yeah. wow last night was the best time of my life and b4 i red this site and took advise from it...i nver could do anything or even imagen to. i know i still have alot more work to do and thanks to you guys i can now call my self a confident, girl gettin, man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SinJester

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Wow nice work man. As much as I admire what you did, it wouldn't hurt for you to use CAPITOLS at the start of sentances would it? :p I think you could show even me up hehe. You PIMP brotha. Haha how are you enjoying the day after effects? You know, jealous guys, guys that give you a pat on the back, girls that look at you differently, and seeing girls that you did stuff with in a normal situation where you aren't in the zone?

But damn that move you pulled off when the guy was smooth if its true. Was there any alcahol involved? It almost sounds like it lol. The thing is I'm like in the 'zone' as soon as I have a bit of alcahol but to be honest I think I need to stop drinking so I don't rely on it too much.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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