Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I Gave Her My Number And She Called

Maximus Rex

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This last November, as a matter of fact it was the day before Thanskgiving. I was hollering at a chick. The conversation went well and I went for the close.

I didn't get her number, but I gave her mine. Not only did she call, but she called the next day. Was that an anomaly?

Believe me, I understadn the logic behind not giving a chick your number if she doesn't give up hers. It seems that if I was successful once, then maybe I should try it again. Maybe give it a "field test," and see what my results would be.

What do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Krassus

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There are definitely times when girls won't give you their number even though they like you. A common one is if they're surrounded by judgemental friends when you picked them up. This is especially true for me since i'm pretty direct. Sometimes, the girls will refuse to give out their number so that they don't appear slutty - this is common ASD. Another possibility is if they have crazy/jealous father or brother. This happens to me all the time. There are girls i've been dating for months, whose fathers have no idea i exist. And for good reason. This isn't all that hard if the girl has a cellphone, but what if she doesn't? She can't have you calling her house if she's got a crazy father who jumps on every chance he gets to tear her (potential) boyfriends to shreds. On and on it goes. You gotta learn how to calibrate. If you and the girl are alone, she has a cell and won't give you the number, tell her to go to hell. If she's with friends and/or doesn't have a cell, and asks for your number, give it to her.
 
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