I Feel Lost

[ClassicStyle]

I have been browsing on these seduction sites for awhile now, and I feel like I have changed somewhat, and that my interactions have gotten slightly better. However I still feel like I am just not getting it, I would really apprieciate any advice on how to really jump head first into seduction, I think I am good enough looking that I would have a shot with most girls. How do I become the DJ that I want to? What is the best method and what did you guys do to be able to juggle mutliple hot girls, and overcome whatever was holding you back to begin with?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Stop worrying about "seduction". Start focusing on yourself.

Start hitting the gym; Take up a new hobby/activity that you are VERY passionate about; stop trying to actively pickup women; expand your social circle... in short, be very selfish and focus on you. Once you get yourself on a solid path, the women will take care of themselves... trust me. You'll walk/talk/act differently once you do all this, and women can sense it.

Do the above mentioned things and tell me how you feel, in a year's time.

 

[defiancy]

After you've been here long enough you start to figure out that the boards are here to change your life overall, not teach you any method to attract countless number of girls. It's always a constant struggle to improve and you have to do actually feel good about yourself before a woman can actually be interested in looking at you. When you feel charismatic thats when you lure in girls, but in the meantime always improve yourself by approaching and practicing

 

[ClassicStyle]

I have been working out lately at the gym, as far as hobbies go I don't have something I am super passionate about. I love to bike and surf but do not do it alot. As far as social circles I think I am ok, I mean usually someone is calling me to hang out, I actually think I am fairly popular, it just seems that when it comes to really getting to the nitty gritty of seducing girls I fall short, I think I am missing something really key. Should I simple start approaching more and more to learn how to become better at conversation and flirting/etc?

 

[thefonz]

I'm right where you are right now, completely lost.

But I've been on this site for awhile and I can tell you this site won't fill any holes in your life. Right now I'm trying to find my purpose in life. Something to get up for in the morning that doesn't involve infatuation with a girl or girls. I guess that's one thing this site can give you is that piece of knowledge that life should never revolve around women. But you have to find your own path away from this site.....the first step is the hardest