Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I Faked My Own Death

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Here's another tale about women and the law:

I watched the most recent episode of "I Faked My Own Death" on the Discovery Channel the other day. In both cases, a guy got into legal problems over drugs and faked his death. In both cases, he got caught.

In the first case, the guy killed a hichhiker and burned his body to pass off as his own. (Makes you wonder about prosecuting "victimless crimes" - if it weren't for the war on drugs, that guy would still be alive.)
Anyway, his wife collected $250,000 life insurance when the death certificate was issued.

In the second case, the guy's wife came up with the idea of faking his death and helped him set up a blood spattered scene in his car where it looked like he was dragged off and transported elsewhere.

Now here's what I thought was strange. Both the guys went to jail. But in neither case were any charges pressed on the wife.

In the first case I can almost see why, because that guy was a dangerous sociopath. She could probably make a case she felt threatened if she didn't go along with it. Even though she did receive and control the life insurance money (she gave it back when they were caught).

But in the second case, the woman masterminded the whole thing. You'd think she would be held accountable. I didn't think the police were fond of investigating faked crime scenes.

So is this another case of the law being soft on women? If a male were in their place would they be prosecuted?
The only thing I can think of is maybe the guys agreed to plead guilty if their wives weren't prosecuted - although there was no information on this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Come on Zarky, Zeek is a resident, give the man a break.
 

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Yeah this show sounds great! Am going to look for it now.
 

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samspade said:
...or the women turned state's evidence and testified.
Yeah, that's possible, good guess.

Zarky said:
I'm still figuring out what this has to do with getting hot puzzy... ?
Nothing. This is one of those "the courts and culture favors women" posts.

Yo'Mama said:
Yeah this show sounds great! Am going to look for it now.
It's a new show, apparently it's been quite popular for them.
Personally, I didn't think it was as interesting as I had hoped.
I was hoping they would show how people established an entirely new identity. But it's more of a crime show than anything.

In the US, it would be almost impossible to work what with everyone's social security numbers on record and all. It looked like these guys just found employers who would pay them cash under the table.
Maybe it would be easier in other countries?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It would be good to know how to do it. You never know when you might need to take similar action (I guess getting hit by a terrible divorce settlement may be one such circumstance).
 
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