I Ever Want This To Happen Again.

[DonGiovanni]

A Cute Girl (HB7 maybe) asked me to take a walk with her because she was bored in class or whatever and the teacher wasnt really paying attention. I missed this opportunity because I was afraid of the talking to a complete stranger for a extended amount of time or maybe it was just the silence i was afraid of. But anyway I turned her down for a stupid reason but i feel like i kept my value from her reaction when I saw her later on.

But sosuave got me to this point I just need help escalating and conversation. And good reads or advice?

SideNote: Im even more pissed because what most dj try to accomplish was put in front of me!! I could of got a make out session or sumthin but hey live and learn right?

 

[DonGiovanni]

that sound really great but I still have a problem with basic escalating!

 

[faiNt`]

This thread is exactly the reason why I'm unsure whether or not to introduce my younger brother to this site. People over think and over analyze everything once they learn about the game.

Pretend you were a normal person who could have normal conversations with normal people. Would you have gone? Well, it would have depended, were you bored? No, okay, you would have stayed and thought nothing of it. Yes? Well then you would have probably gotten the F*CK out and had a nice walk and talk with someone you didn't know. IF she was cool enough for you, you might tell her to give you her number so she can come over and give you a back massage sometimes because this new workout routine is making you extra sore. Tell her that her hands look like they can really massage some kinks out. I'm just going off the top of my head here. It's called the gift of gab. Learn it.

Oh, and stop thinking. Get out of your head. Just do, don't think. Actions my man, that's all you need to remember. Do it, don't say it.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Lesson 1: Basic Techniques.

How do you talk to guys? Now do the same things with girls, and do it about topics they are interested in.

Find out what those topics are. Use your ears and listen before you speak.

End of Lesson 1.

Lesson 2 is advanced techniques.

 

[Kevansta]

This thread is exactly the reason why I'm unsure whether or not to introduce my younger brother to this site. People over think and over analyze everything once they learn about the game.

Pretend you were a normal person who could have normal conversations with normal people. Would you have gone? Well, it would have depended, were you bored? No, okay, you would have stayed and thought nothing of it. Yes? Well then you would have probably gotten the F*CK out and had a nice walk and talk with someone you didn't know. IF she was cool enough for you, you might tell her to give you her number so she can come over and give you a back massage sometimes because this new workout routine is making you extra sore. Tell her that her hands look like they can really massage some kinks out. I'm just going off the top of my head here. It's called the gift of gab. Learn it.

Oh, and stop thinking. Get out of your head. Just do, don't think. Actions my man, that's all you need to remember. Do it, don't say it.

This site does both good and bad. I believe in what Pook said though about the site being just some Spanish guy called Manual. For me, it completely helped me open my eyes and get me started. But you can't rely on it and once you get "it," you need to start to let go so it just becomes a part of you. I think to truly be a DJ, you no longer need "routines" or rules" but it truly becomes natural.

 

[DonGiovanni]

Thanks to all you guys. good and bad everything helps. Norwegian Dj put me on to tyler durdens blueprint decoded and as he would describe it ive "been inside my head" and "out of state" recently. So im in a big slump so hopefully i can power through it. plus im having trouble finding plates i can spin at my school but who knows. tomorrows a new day.