"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I ended this relashionship finally

Ulex

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Guys, I just break up yesterday with my one-year relationship. I couldn't stand more with her insecurity and her little games and provocations, although I have give her signs to change her behaviour many times. She did all to stop me but I stood with my decision. Never a guy had break with her, she couldn't believe... Thank you SoSuave.

Ulex
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Reyaj

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I broke up with my 18 month about a month ago. I started talking to her again but she became shady so I know I have to move on. If you think you may not be happy with a girl in the future, you definitely have to move on.

We'll both be ok bud!
 

Javelin44

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Congrats man! You took step #1 to a better life. Learn from your mistakes and don't get into an exclusive relationship too soon. Meet more women and learn how to DJ! Also, there is a chance she will flirt with you, try to get you jealous and get back with her. AVOID ALL CONTACT. This can't be stressed enough. Especially the beginner DJs, it can be especially hard to refrain from getting back with an ex. YOU CANNOT BE WITH HER. "She's an ex for a reason."
 
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