I dont want to be cute

[theNEWDJ]

Noone has been able to tell me a good answer to this, maybe you guys can help.

Most girls i am acquanted with or friends with consider me as cute, but I want to be a hott stud. At first glance they say i am cute.

How can I get them to think differently?
Should I dress real nice or some s**t to look older?
Should I stop smiling so damn much?
I dont think "Cute" guys get laid too much

 

[familyguyfan]

Being cute isn't bad unless a girl says it in a hesitant tone, comparing you to a teddy bear or something. But, when girls call a guy cute, they usually mean he is hot.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

It depends on how they say it. Girls say im cute all the time.

 

[i am me]

/\ Yeah. Girls just like using the word cute instead of hot (ex: Usher is sooooo cute. Orlando Bloom is cute.....)

I hear that sometimes so don't think I'm wierd or something

 

[Layla]

Yeah man it definitely depends on the context...

- EX- 'your friend'- "so what do you think of theNEWdj?
'girl'- oh hes cute.....

EX2- theres a group of girls talking about you, one goes "oh theNEWdj! hes soo cute!

you get it?

 

[theNEWDJ]

I am also sort of wierd, but this makes me funny. Thats just my personality wierd/crazy/funny all together. So girls think i am the cute wierd kid, and i hardy ever get hott i almost aways get "cute",
It is not like i am creepy wierd because girls like to be with me.
What the hell is this, I DO NOT WANT TO BE CUTE?


anyway i dont want try to change my personality, but instead tone down the whole wierd thing.

 

[theNEWDJ]

I hope you guys are right in saying that cute is hott, because if it is I am in for some quality chicks

 

[Patrick124]

I view it as..
Cute=hott, but mor eof a relationship kidna guy
Hott=only good for a one-nighter.
just my view.

 

[PeeGee]

I have a similar view as Patrick; in fact I don't consider cute a compliment any more thanks to that.

It's not a bad thing, but I went through a period where I saw it to mean 'boyish', which probably helped shape my bizarre view of a simple word.

It's probably important to note that I consider 'cute' girls relationship material but not 'screw them silly' material.

 

[arq-dj1]

i dunno, but when i acted AFC i was always called cute

so, i thought i was bealtiful but sexually a manequin

i still can't change that mindset for tha world in particular

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Doesn't matter what they say or think man. They're thinking of you, that's clear. I get girls callin me cute all the time, and honestly, I love it cuz it shows I'm gettin attention.

Don't let what others think get in the way of your game...unless you ain't pullin any...

 

[bladeux]

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Are you bulk up or skinny?

I am pretty skinny with a good looking face and I've been called cute a lot of times, but never a girl told me that I was HOT.

Girls don't just call a guy HOT because then it's too easy for the guy... She'll mostly tell a guy he is hot if she wants to sleep with him for 1 night, otherwise she will use the word "cute", like every girl does.

 

[dastal]

ive heard girls call the wierd/crazy/funny thing cute, too. depends on how you look at it.
dont worry

 

[seloco]

Cute is good!

Dude! if your cute be thankful your not ugly! "cute" guys get laid to! lol
"be cute... in a manlike way"
lol

 

[theNEWDJ]

how can i be cute in a manly way seloco?

 

[i am me]

I think he was kidding...but just stay "cute" (keep your style or keep improving) and act masculine. That doesn't mean you have to be the "big man" on campus. Just don't let anyone push you around, have your own opinion, and treat girls well (without sucking up to them).

 

[seloco]

thanx

thanx for reading my point! lol

 

[Cloud-uk]

wtf? Who gives a **** if girls say you're cute, or a freak, or a wanker, or any damn name under the sun. What matters is are they on your di<k?

If they're not, then what ever you are needs to change. Problem sloved, no HS BS.

I take it since you're here you aren't macking it on as much as you want. I get the vibe at the moment you are a funny, smiley, happy guy- probably have a good bunch of female friends. If I'm right, tone down the smiles a bit, but harness the wierd/crazy personality you've been blessed with to get you some ass. Also try to show up your more serious, clever side- perhaps by getting a job, starting your own business- whatever excites you.

Anyway, just my 50 pence.