"I don't usually do this"

[sosuave213]

What is the significance of this statement?

 

[Dr.Suave]

Its something girls say after ONS/SNL so you dont think she´s a 304

 

[handle]

Often means you're in your 20s and about to get laid. Another classic: "we are not sleeping together tonight," said out of the blue.

 

[Nitrozv20]

She will break her own rules for alphas, and make them for betas. "I dont normally do this" is a sign you may be in that alpha category so you better fk her like you mean it.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I’ve heard:

‘I don’t usually do it on the first date.’
‘I don’t usually do it without a condom.’
‘I don’t usually swallow.’.

I’m not sure why they say it.

 

[sosuave213]

"I'm not a slut, but you're just too delicious."

That's literally what she said.

Should I believe she is indeed not a slut?

Maybe I am delicious like Ferrero Rocher.

 

[sosuave213]

She will break her own rules for alphas, and make them for betas. "I dont normally do this" is a sign you may be in that alpha category so you better fk her like you mean it.

Genius post, thanks

I once asked a chick out to the park, and she said "why not dinner?" I gave my reasons for it and she's like "ill pass. Good luck" and in my mind I was like good riddance lol.

Surely a beta would accept the dinner and get slotted into the "lets take it slow" category while the chick herself is getting reamed by an alpha she is doing her best to next, but just seems unable to shake off.

 

[sosuave213]

I’ve heard:

‘I don’t usually do it on the first date.’
‘I don’t usually do it without a condom.’
‘I don’t usually swallow.’.

I’m not sure why they say it.

Good variations. She said "were not going to have sex" and then 1 minute later proceeds to blow me. So, I guess she was right about that.

 

[Bingo-Player]

its usually a case of her not knowing how to categorise you and she wants to pretend she is an innocent little princess

The reality is women that say this line and others are usually very very aware of the men they are sleeping with

If she already has you in the fvckboy category they won't bother saying it because they know you don't care and want her to be a naughty little Sloot anyway

But if she's not really sure about you and maybe thinks your more of a good guy / nice guy she will say it to allow you some level of plausible deniability of her being a "good girl" later on

they say it because they want you to think " oh she just did this for me" but women aren't dull they know men like to feel like they've conquered

Also i'm sorry to break it but In 2024 most girls definitely HAVE done it before whatever it is

 

[Bingo-Player]

I’ve heard:

‘I don’t usually do it on the first date.’
‘I don’t usually do it without a condom.’
‘I don’t usually swallow.’.

I’m not sure why they say it.

The amount of girls I've fvcked without any mention of condom would keep some of you awake at night

 

[sosuave213]

its usually a case of her not knowing how to categorise you and she wants to pretend she is an innocent little princess

The reality is women that say this line and others are usually very very aware of the men they are sleeping with

If she already has you in the fvckboy category they won't bother saying it because they know you don't care and want her to be a naughty little Sloot anyway

But if she's not really sure about you and maybe thinks your more of a good guy / nice guy she will say it to allow you some level of plausible deniability of her being a "good girl" later on

they say it because they want you to think " oh she just did this for me" but women aren't dull they know men like to feel like they've conquered

Also i'm sorry to break it but In 2024 most girls definitely HAVE done it before whatever it is

She told me that we need to talk more (and she implied if we don't she will slot me into f0ckboy status.)

Plan is to save up and simply travel to different cities with her while ignoring her between dates lol (unless she texts first ofc)

 

[The Duke]

You can bet she always says that stuff. She is worried that you will think she is a hoe. It's her anti slut mechanism kicking in but she likes you enough/horny enough she wants to fuhk.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I’ve heard:

‘I don’t usually do it on the first date.’
‘I don’t usually do it without a condom.’
‘I don’t usually swallow.’.

I’m not sure why they say it.

“I have never taken it in the arse”

and as Ham said, I rawdog every single time, I think the only time I wore a condom in the last decade was because I’d banged a chick that was so tight I had road rash. They don’t even ask.

Even when I was Sancho.

 

[KevinRyman22]

A woman can tell you this for 2 reasons.

1) She's trying to make herself look more innocent because she sees you as less promiscuous as her
2) She is being honest and might be nervous to spend the night over as she hasn't dated casually in a while.

 

[sosuave213]

Maybe she's afraid of it being seen as a casual encounter and wants something more serious

This usually is said on the first or second date though.

Does not compute.

 

[holidayad_]

I believe that in 99% of the time, it's just a romantic way to tell you that she is a wh*re.

The other 1% maybe you can try to believe that she is telling the truth.

 

[sosuave213]

I believe that in 99% of the time, it's just a romantic way to tell you that she is a wh*re.

The other 1% maybe you can try to believe that she is telling the truth.

Well, maybe it takes the right guy to let that part out of her.

She says "I don't normally do this"

I've been seeing a co-worker of mine (bad idea I know) who I've known and become good friends with over the last yera. Recently the relationship has become more serious. We've went on about 5 or so dates over the last two weeks and on the last date we had sex. At some point later she made the...

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[Machine10033]

The amount of girls I've fvcked without any mention of condom would keep some of you awake at night

it’s pretty scary.. I legit remember only two girls that were adamant about rubbers....this was in my college days and both were on scholarships for athletics....

Even worse would be when you would hear omg I don’t do this but I don’t want to use a condom.... then you don’t exactly get it out in time and she says it’s ok... I have plan b at my apartment.... for the next few weeks I’m watching for mushrooms to start growing from my junk. Thankfully I dodged all bullets in my younger days.

 

[sosuave213]

it’s pretty scary.. I legit remember only two girls that were adamant about rubbers....this was in my college days and both were on scholarships for athletics....

Even worse would be when you would hear omg I don’t do this but I don’t want to use a condom.... then you don’t exactly get it out in time and she says it’s ok... I have plan b at my apartment.... for the next few weeks I’m watching for mushrooms to start growing from my junk. Thankfully I dodged all bullets in my younger days.

Wait, what? Wow, we will never know the adventures of the hamster.

 

[Bingo-Player]

it’s pretty scary.. I legit remember only two girls that were adamant about rubbers....this was in my college days and both were on scholarships for athletics....

Even worse would be when you would hear omg I don’t do this but I don’t want to use a condom.... then you don’t exactly get it out in time and she says it’s ok... I have plan b at my apartment.... for the next few weeks I’m watching for mushrooms to start growing from my junk. Thankfully I dodged all bullets in my younger days.

Thing is Once you are at the point of sex your woman should be so horny she just wants to get pounded

Also Most girls I've encountered have some degree of a cream pie fetish I will often ask if they like guys nutting in them and 8 / 10 its a solid "yes I do"

Condoms ruin this experience for them and whilst some are worried about STI's once its gone in a couple of times most just stop giving a fvck