"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't know what is this

Mitza

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I have a problem, with this.

When I'm almost to fight with someone, or challanged by someone I feel my body shaking, and my knees week.I know that I could beat that person, but I don't want to have problems after, because 99% of times when I've got into a fight the one(s) that challanged me was unconcious, or with a lot of damage.I have training in kick box, and karate in past, and I've have some experience, but I have this problem when someone want to challange me with words.

What is my problem ?

Please excuse my bad english.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Freddy1

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Just the adrenalie rush. It happens to alot of guys. Perfectly normal.
 
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