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I don't know if you guys can help me

Xombie0991

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So I am new here. Gonna be looking for advice on getting with women, mainly just one night stands.

So I am 23. I got in an accident when I was 17 that kind of screwed up my life and set me back a bunch, not to mention, I don't think I was fully "all there" for a good while after I got out of the hospital. The accident had left me mostly unscathed in the long run, I guess, but I got a traumatic brain injury. I am no cripple, or mentally handicapped, but at one point they did say I was the most concerning person in the hospital I was staying at.

Anyways, right now and even before the accident as far back as 9th grade high school I was seen as socially awkward and people didn't really want to be around me. I had this in my head the entire high school experience and during my first year of college before dropping out, then getting back in at age 21, then dropping out again to move (it was a bad decision).

I still live with my parents. I am getting a car soon. I am prepared to work two jobs to sustain myself and actually know of some pretty cheap living situations here where I live (Houston, TX).

Anyways, as you can likely suspect I am a virgin. I know many people are ready to settle down after 21 but I haven't partied much and of course haven't slept around or had that kind of fun and I really really want all that.The people here seem cool but I haven't really hung out with anyone yet, and I have learned over the years that if a guy wants to hook up with women he needs social proof and social status.

Anyways, what should I do as far as what I want and my circumstances? Will you guys be able to assist me or are there other sites you can direct me too?
 

RangerMIke

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Work on yourself. Go back to school. 21 is not too late... trust me you are still very young. If you have to work and go back to school part time than do that. The University of Houston (my alma mater Go Coogs!!) is filled with people just like you, returning students who work and go part time. In my opinion UH has the most awesome women you will ever meet.

Get your sh!t together.... hit the gym, take Tae Kwon Do lessons... lift weights. And get your mind right... do things that make you happy.
 
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