"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't know how to make out with a woman

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I don't know how to make out with a woman, I have never done it.

Give me useful realistic advice on how to learn that as ****s seem to make it a requirement for having sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fly By Night

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Philippe Schlichting said:
I don't know how to make out with a woman, I have never done it.

Give me useful realistic advice on how to learn that as ****s seem to make it a requirement for having sex.
First... go make out with a woman. Try for once to do something without clogging your mind with steps and manuals. If she doesn't pull away within the first 5 seconds, then you should be good.
 

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Its gonna be awkward the first time. There's no avoiding that. Just make sure you dont shove your tongue down her throat or bite her lip off and your good.
 

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Unless you have a really submissive chick on your hands you could just let her take the lead at the start and pretty soon your instincts should kick in.
 

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Getting to the point of making out is harder than actually doing it. It takes some experience, but you can actually FEEL when a chick is ready to make out or at least kiss. It usually involves deep eye contact and her face near yours. Optional but very smooth: brush her hair off the side of her face with your fingertips of your right hand. Then lean in and start to lip kiss first.

Proceed to the following:


Like Zerro said, it's very natural and most of the time, you could let the girl lead it.

Basically, just lip kiss her with your mouth somewhat open (not too much). One of two things will happen:

1. You'll feel her tongue enter your mouth.

Or

2. You slowly move the tip of your tongue into her mouth, and you find it meets her tongue.

Then just massage the tip of her tongue with yours. A side to side motion is generally better than in and out. Don't make out like a rattlesnake lol, although some younger inexperienced girls do this.

If you open mouth kiss and and can't easily find or reach her tongue, she's not up for making out or at least not yet. Just continue open mouth lip kissing and petting.

The long and the short of it is she will make her tongue easily available during open mouth kissing if she wants to make out. If she doesn't want to make out, she keeps her tounge retracted back and/or her mouth closed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Met a girl online from Christian-cafe last year. While we were "hands-off" at first, eventually we would have the most intense, passionate make-out sessions that beat any experience my parents had or anyone else I knew. We made out in park benches when a deer was running a cross and I never saw a deer running through a city park before. We made out in the back of my car and I sucked her breasts and fondled her up while doing so. She was shorter than I so she can lean on me while sitting. She had this cute face that I just enjoyed these sessions immensely. We made out in a island park near the city twice. Once during the night while bats were flying by and you only had the boat docks illuminated. It is just super-amazing experience. We loved each other as well and we would always say "I love you, I love you too, etc...." and hold hands in public or sitting over coffee.

Regretfully, I dumped her because I did some digging into her past with her ex-husband and felt slighted when we hung out with her friends.

So, in answer to your question....go to a city park, or nice romantic venue, or even on a parking lot bench...I think the venue has allot to do with putting a girl into a romantic mood. But be careful, as it becomes a painful memory since you can't get more if you break-up with the girl.
 
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