"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't know how im expected to talk to anyone?

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I mean in class sometimes I'll talk to someone (if the class is a lab and we're forced to), but other than that outside of class I never talk except with my roommate sometimes. My roommate though is a moron and if it weren't for being an athlete he'd be mowing lawns somewhere.

I don't understand how? I literally have no clue, I've already tried clubs and I couldn't find anything at all interesting to me that wasnt athletic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Baby steps. Work on just saying simple greetings and acknowledgements to people. Don't feel like you need to have a full blown conversation everytime you talk to someone.

Your reluctance to talk to people is the result of associating it with negative experiences. Practice, start out simple, and build up a foundation of positive experiences.
 

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Yewki said:
Baby steps. Work on just saying simple greetings and acknowledgements to people. Don't feel like you need to have a full blown conversation everytime you talk to someone.

Your reluctance to talk to people is the result of associating it with negative experiences. Practice, start out simple, and build up a foundation of positive experiences.
but where do i find people to start chatting to?
 
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