"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't even understand how this level of hypocrisy is possible...

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Hung out with this chick once. Had sex. It was fun. Etc. Tried to get her to hang out again, but she was on her period for a week. When she tells me it's finished I tell her I'll let her know when I'm free. 2 days later I text her saying let's hang out on so-and-so day. Says she's now busy. Ask her when she can hang out, she says she doesn't know and will have to check. Automatically knew it was another dude, and she ended up saying we can't fool around any more because of him. Called her out about it and she said that she only likes to be with one person at a time, and "I didn't make any effort and if I had she wouldn't even have given him the time of day."

Ummm what. I texted this girl every other day or at the very least every 2 days, and the only time she hit me up was when she told me her period had ended. So apparently her not making an effort = me not making an effort :crackup: And she doesn't like to talk to more than one guy at a time, but she started talking to another dude when she was talking to me :crackup:

I asked her if she realized how much of a hypocrite she was. No response :crackup:

A woman's mind, or the twilight zone? Is there even a difference between the two?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ahhh, welcome to Hamsterville.

The only thing to understand here is that she lost attraction to you. And she will rationalize this with whatever faulty logic she's last heard is socially acceptable.
 
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Peaks&Valleys said:
Ahhh, welcome to Hamsterville.

The only thing to understand here is that she lost attraction to you. And she will rationalize this with whatever faulty logic she's last heard is socially acceptable.
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I feel bad for the guy tbh. Wifing up a chick who will branch jump as soon as he "stops making an effort." I don't know why these guys take these ho's off the streets (so to speak). When will they learn to stop GFing girls who are only worth FWB?
 
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There is nothing wrong with hyprocracy, the very best and successful do it all the time. And on top of that, they are very quick to call out on people who are hypocrites and how wrong it is. If they end up being in the receiving end of a bad deal.
 
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Korrupt said:
I feel bad for the guy tbh. Wifing up a chick who will branch jump as soon as he "stops making an effort." I don't know why these guys take these ho's off the streets (so to speak). When will they learn to stop GFing girls who are only worth FWB?
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What makes you think he's trying to wife her up? You win some, you lose some. That's the name of the game. Least you got the lay. That makes you the 'winner'. Job done. Move on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That guy is probably better looking, richer, better in bed, or all of the above than you. You fell for the petty excuse.
 
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Yea....its just her own words making her own brain happy.

Its like stepping on a snail...i feel bad...but not really. But when my ex stepped on a snail...she cried and felt bad.

Yea no! Its just her own show.

In fact i think ur girl feels like she played you. No remorse about being a hypocrit because she moved on to another. Just like everybody else does.
 
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Yea....its just her own words making her own brain happy.

Its like stepping on a snail...i feel bad...but not really. But when my ex stepped on a snail...she cried and felt bad.

Yea no! Its just her own show.

In fact i think ur girl feels like she played you. No remorse about being a hypocrit because she moved on to another. Just like everybody else does.
 
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Not near enough information. This guy who knocked you out of the saddle could be a complete AFC blowing her door down with the sweeping off her feet and supplication. There are MILLIONS like this out there. This WORKS on women... until they lose attraction a month later or less. Don't call names, show emotion, just keep in casual touch and keep treating like any other option. The only constant is change.
 
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Yup that sounds about right. This is why the community encourages plate spinning and not putting your eggs in 1 basket. If a plate falls you replace with another or focus on yourself. This is where a true give less f*cks mindset comes in handy. It took me years to really grasp it.

Woman always put the blame on the man 100% of the time. They could have fallen on another mans d*ck and they will still rationalize it and not blame themselves. Maybe for a minute but not very long.

Recently a chick admitted to me she would occasionaly bang her ex knowing he was in a new relationship. I think she even said he was married, I forget. Her hamster rationalized that it was ok because he was hers first. :crackup: Sloots
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its a fallacy to believe women always leave a man because they are "better looking" or "richer" women has horrible taste in men
 
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