"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I do better at some clubs over other ones.

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I noticed that my success with women at clubs seems to depend on what clubs I got to.

I noticed I do better at clubs that are nicer with cleaner women than at the clubs where there are lots of scummy looking guys who look like drug dealers and the women are really dirty and skanky looking. It seems the really sleazy looking chicks dont want anything to do with me.

Any one else notice they do better with women depending on what club they go to? or is it just me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes, I noticed I go to the nicest bars where women drink the fancy expensive drinks and have $500 purses, I am not as successful. I go to bars with biker dudes and I have girls that approach me... I don't look like a biker nor would I want to be considered one, but I would say I relate to them better.... I guess everybody has their crowd where they naturally fit in. Do you put alot of effort into your appearance? I don't. If you dress all nice, you're not going to fit in at a metal bar.
 
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I tend to do better at the clubs where everyone's drunk...

well, where the girls are drunk anyway lol

Yeah I sometimes get girls that approach me, usually when I ignore them though, strange eh.
 
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The thing that annoys me is the girls that come around trying to promote something.... you should see the shock on their faces when I totally blow them off. They're so used to guys drooling all over them because they are doing the job of approaching.... great way to meet people, for sure though, to have one of those jobs.
 
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rrrrr said:
Yes, I noticed I go to the nicest bars where women drink the fancy expensive drinks and have $500 purses, I am not as successful. I go to bars with biker dudes and I have girls that approach me... I don't look like a biker nor would I want to be considered one, but I would say I relate to them better.... I guess everybody has their crowd where they naturally fit in. Do you put alot of effort into your appearance? I don't. If you dress all nice, you're not going to fit in at a metal bar.
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Yeah, I put in an effort, Ive been told by women I dress nice. I definitely dont look biker. Im have a pinch of metrosexual in my style, just a little for flavor.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The higer the cover charge to get into the club, the higher maintenance the women are.
 
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