The short:
Liked girl. Taked to girl. Some other guy talks to girl. Guy asks girl out. Guy dumps her. I ask her our. She says no. We both act like we're going out anyway, though.
Anyways. A while ago I asked her if she wanted to hang out after school she said she'd like to if her parents would let her. I even did the DJ move of I'm going to see a movie and get somethign to eat, if you want to come, thatd be fun. She said that sounded like fun, I thought I won. Well, Capt. Guy asked her again, and she didnt say yes or no, so today, I was expecting her to take him back, because (by standards, I really have feelings for her, he is a drop-out, unkept loser - therefore I lose.) I called her, she wasnt home yet. She called me back, and said she couldnt hang out.
"Whatever. Maybe Saturday then"
"Maybe, are yo mad?"
"No. Im going to a friends house and get somethign to eat."
"Oh..."
"Bye." *click*
My first step to recovering from this oneitis? I think so. I am definately happier after having said that to her than i've been all day. Certainly better than saying: 'Aww.. why not? When do you want to? What do you want to do?' Quite frankly, I don't see her and cpt. guy lasting very much longer. She was with him for 4 days before he dumped her. The way I see it, if I stop talking to her all together, she might come back to me. If not, then oh well.
My only problem is this... She has always called me. always. we'd talk for quite a time, in fact. If she called me again, do I cut it off, or talk to her normally?
Liked girl. Taked to girl. Some other guy talks to girl. Guy asks girl out. Guy dumps her. I ask her our. She says no. We both act like we're going out anyway, though.
Anyways. A while ago I asked her if she wanted to hang out after school she said she'd like to if her parents would let her. I even did the DJ move of I'm going to see a movie and get somethign to eat, if you want to come, thatd be fun. She said that sounded like fun, I thought I won. Well, Capt. Guy asked her again, and she didnt say yes or no, so today, I was expecting her to take him back, because (by standards, I really have feelings for her, he is a drop-out, unkept loser - therefore I lose.) I called her, she wasnt home yet. She called me back, and said she couldnt hang out.
"Whatever. Maybe Saturday then"
"Maybe, are yo mad?"
"No. Im going to a friends house and get somethign to eat."
"Oh..."
"Bye." *click*
My first step to recovering from this oneitis? I think so. I am definately happier after having said that to her than i've been all day. Certainly better than saying: 'Aww.. why not? When do you want to? What do you want to do?' Quite frankly, I don't see her and cpt. guy lasting very much longer. She was with him for 4 days before he dumped her. The way I see it, if I stop talking to her all together, she might come back to me. If not, then oh well.
My only problem is this... She has always called me. always. we'd talk for quite a time, in fact. If she called me again, do I cut it off, or talk to her normally?