i cheated on my girlfriend. last night i was out with another girl and 2 guys i know from college saw me. one of them used to hook up with my girlfriends best friend for a short time, but now he hates that girl and doesnt talk to her anymore. the other guy is someone that i work with who also goes to my college. do you think they are going to rat me out?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i cheated
- Thread starter theGAME50
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Join the club... 
Docs
Banned
We can't answer this. All I can say, is that it depends if they like you or not. If they don't...haha, you deserve it.
DisobeyThePope
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 1, 2006
- Messages
- 30
- Reaction score
- 0
yep you're busted haha
thanks for this important post
thanks for this important post
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.