i can't take this anymore...

[DJArlington]

i know this is a useless post but i just need to vent. my condo building just had a happy hour and there was this hot chick there who everyone wanted. i saw her before all of the other guys got to the happy hour. i hesistated (thought I would just talk to her later) and before you know it there were a swarm of guys talking to her. my buddy even said she was looking my way before they got there. i try to work into the crowd (around her table) but i got ****ed block and this really slick dude at my building just started blatantly hitting on her, making her laugh, started buying her drinks. he's a cool guy but goes after every piece of ass he can get his hands on.

i am really down right now. i can't seem to take any risks, always scared of what everyone thinks, can't hit on girls. i have girls come up to me sometimes, and when i've had the guts i actually have a pretty decent success rate if I'm not at a club (i do much better at happy hours). i feel like i'm just some type of tool, like a mama's boy or something. i need to live life for myself. i had lots of issues as a kid, which i am addressing now through therapy, but man i need to just get a hold of myself.

i don't know what to do... most of my friends are married now, i'm slowly making new friends but it's really tough to find good wingmen. my confidence is down the tubes. please help.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

And what's worse is that you didn't study Mr. Slick Dude even more or even introduce yourself to him to possibly become part of his wing to learn something... Talk about wasted opportunities... Next time step up!

 

[CrazyGuy]

And what's worse is that you didn't study Mr. Slick Dude even more or even introduce yourself to him to possibly become part of his wing to learn something... Talk about wasted opportunities... Next time step up!

Yes very true,you should have learned from the slick guy or ask him to hang out then learn from him,im pretty sure he wouldnt mind sharing his super powers to u

 

[penkitten]

Yes very true,you should have learned from the slick guy or ask him to hang out then learn from him,im pretty sure he wouldnt mind sharing his super powers to u

or tossing over leftovers every now and then

 

[The Acacia Strain]

slit, it works for me, razors bit dont use scisors they dont work good