"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I canceled First date with girl. Will she see me again?

gettinggirlstoday

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Ok,

so I so I met a really hot asian girl at a nightclub and was suppose to go to a club with her this weekend. I texted her and told her I could not make it. She acted fine with it and I told her we would do something the next weekend. Keep in mind my encounter with her was pretty brief the first night we met nearly a week ago.

Anyways I hope I did not screw things up with her. You think she will see me again? I mean no big deal if she won't....theres plenty of more girls at the club :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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K2000kidd

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This could go either way

1. You had the balz to blow off a hot asian chick on a first date and may have her thinking
"damn he MUST have options so i need to step it up."

2. She's moving her head about like an owl saying "Oh no he didn't dispesect ALL THIS!!"
as she waves her hand in a circle snapping her fingers
 

gettinggirlstoday

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I figured it could either really help me or hurt me. I mean like you said she might think I have other options. The bottom line is I needed to shift my focus to my career this weekend and could not bother taking her out.
 

usernamedox11

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I once cancelled a first date on a girl twice, the 2nd time telling her that she's ugly, and later pursued her after I found out she had a BF and smashed her.
 
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