"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I bought a flask

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Anyone else have one?

I plan on using it sometimes. Its a 8 oz flask so it hold quite a bit. I thought it would be pretty cool and different to have. Put some spiced rum or vodka in there when I go places.

Does it make me more interesting and classy or is it lame to have?

Keep in mind im 18 so it is going to be handy to me and not just trying to show off to others when i pull it out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I usually carry stuff around in a coke or water bottle. My sister is planning on getting me a nice engraved flask for my next bday.

It's handy especially for our age. I don't know about it being classy or lame. I could care less

It's fairly common where I live. I've seen guys of all ages carry one in there car.
 
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Thats cool you know guys who have them. Iv never seen or heard of anyone owning one at my school. Im sure there are people who do though. thanks for the post
 
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I have four flask. A lether bound one that's a 6oz, two from coleman a 9 oz and a 2oz (slender) and the newest one that has a reader so you know how much is in the flask and an extendable funnel for easy fill. The last one is my fav but I bust the others out when i'm feeling rustic.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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john paul said:
Is the 2oz even worth it?

I think a leather bound one would look cool
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It fits in a belt buckle. 2oz of 151 goes a long way:D
 
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