"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am a little confused

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I began this site by following Pook's advice on being the prize and having girls chase you and while I have been uniting "dream and day" as he says it, I am getting a lot of women attracted but none in bed.

I was reading some of the Sheezler's work on seduction and I am beginning to think that I should go back to using it, because I think it would seal the deal. Because while my natural joy and vibe gets me auditions and makes women take notice of me, like an attractive guy's looks gets him auditons, I dont seem to be getting any "callbacks!" And as you alll know, nobody auditions just to audition, we audition to get the part.

From reading guys like Pook and others, this site has helped me focus more on changing my life and becoming the man I want to be spiritually, financially, physically, and mentally and I have those parts down pretty good right now. Now, its time for me to get what I actually came here to get, and thats women, or what I call it (cause I am in sales) Prospecting For Pvssy. I can do cold approaches, I am not scared, I go to the club alone, and everything, but I just cant seal the deal.

I also went to the club last night, and again, most of the girls pushed me off when I would jump behind them. Have I united dream and day like Pook said, yes, but am I the most popular guy in the club, no. Same with school, girls always take notice of my vibe, but I believe a little seduction can get me to my goal as far as women are concerned, my goal is:

20 cold approaches a week
12 number closes
6 date setups
2-3 fvcks

this would give me about 80 approaches a month, but.....the flipside, is 8-12 fvcks a month. Thats my goal, can you guys help me get there. This site has changed me as a man, now, I personally want and need a lot of girls in my circle, why......because thats the ONLY thing I have left to bring in, everything else is either here or on its way. After I get this, I would be in TOTAL HAPPINESS. Thank you sosuave!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blackgame posted this on this site,

Keys to a super hot male

DOMINATE.
Dominant = Masculine = Potential Lover
.Submissive = Feminine =you’re my new best friend!

Lead the interaction from the start be a man, and as the man its your
Job to lead, call the shots super hot male you decide were the conversation
Goes you decide were to go were to eat grab her by the arm pull her close
To you kiss her do what ever be a super hot male

NO SUPPLICATION
Don't do things only to make others like you.
Never be nice. Never adjust yourself.
Reward - never give (thing, help/service, attention, time). Never do anything
on the conditions of others - squeeze in your own conditions.
Never try to impress (brag, say intelligent/interesting/cool things, over act,
talk about your friends/exes/things you own etc


SEXUAL STATE
You feel it burning in side don’t hide it let it out, be horny
Be happy that you have a healthy sex drive show it to her
Hammer it into your head that there is absolutely nothing wrong
with being horny. Show it by doing stuff like: Play with something in your
hands. Straighten hair/clothes. Touch your face, neck and body.
. Move closer. Open relaxed body language. Relaxed smile. Low
relaxed eye lids. Sensual eyecontact. Whisper like voice. Lick upper lip,ect.



BODY LANGUAGE
Be relaxed, be spread out, move slowly,you’re the king in this jungle
act like it you’re a super hot male or haven’t you figured it out yet J
this is a movie you’re the lead your are in every seen and everybody
else is just extras now go win your oscar for best actor



SCREENING
Your not there to pick up women,your there to screening for compatibility. like I said before know what you want in a woman and screen them for it
This is her job interview and you’re her future employer. Women love this
Because this is how they treat us,it catches them unprepared to answer correctly
Your putting even more value in yourself remember you’re a super

Have a cool hairstyle-- make sure it looks clean/pop-starish. You want the sideburns and neck to be trimmed and looking tidy. Gel often helps depending on what look you're going for.

-Make sure you have cool clothes and that they fit!

-Attend to details-- keep fingernails trimmed, keep sideburns trimmed, keep lint/dandruff off your clothes

-Wear useless accessories-- bracelets, necklaces/chokers, pins, etc.

-Be tan-- this one made a BIG difference for me-- bumped me up from being "cute" to "hot"

-Don't laugh or smile TOO MUCH. If you do laugh or smile too much, you become too easy to please and seen as too goofy. ALso, don't laugh at your own jokes... say the funniest sh!t with a straight face or a slight smirk at most

-Dominant body language-- wide and open, taking up lots of space and super-relaxed. You don't give a sh!t about societal norms

-Use a loofah sponge and other skin-care products-- they really do make a difference and will separate you from acne-covered geeks

-use whitening tooth-paste-- our culture doesn't really care so much about dental hygiene as much as it does about WHITE TEETH... image is what matters most in american culture... learn the fact, accept it, and take advantage of it

-assumption of high value--this means not taking anyone's sh!t. if someone steps on your toes, you take your attention away from them

-facial expressiveness-- high testosterone males use many more facial expressions than do beta males

--And of course, be in shape... but that's a given

--Believe that what you say will have the intended effect-- be it to excite the girl, intrigue her, or make her laugh-- and hesitation/self-doubt will evaporate and you will be seen as free/cool/hot.

That's all I can think of for now. Good luck brothas!



Okay guys, i do all this shyt already, but i still cant get no azz!!
 

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Yeah. Stop being needy.
 

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Give us one of your field report. From beginning to end with lots of detail. Then maybe we can narrow down what you did wrong.
 
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