"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Always Feel So D*** Tired

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Hey,

In working on changing myself into a better person through this forum (you can get an idea of my situation through this active thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137164 , I have realized that I never seem to have as much energy as everyone else. Over the past few months, I have tried (for a day or two) to go to bed early (9PM) instead of my normal (11PM) on weeknights. I usually get up at 6:10AM to my alarm for school. On the weekends, I go to bed around midnight and wake up around 9AM-10AM. But I still feel out of it and tired all day.
I have tried exercising (running on treadmill for 30 minutes, some crunches, a little more-no weights) for a few days before and while I noticed that I felt a lot better after exercising for the next couple hours, the next day I didn't really feel it anymore.
My diet is usually very healthy (compared to other, even more energetic people). It consists of balanced meals with the meat usually being red meat or chicken. I eat salads/vegetables nearly every day. My breakfast consists of just cereal or Ego waffles or pop tarts complimented with a small glass of orange juice and a vitamin-C tablet.
As far as my personal build, I am tall (a little over 6 feet) and a bit skinny (I weigh around 140lbs). Also, I am 17 years old. I don't have any abs and for some odd reason for a long time, there hasn't been much more than like a half-centimeter of flesh between my ribs and skin.
So, any suggestions to get me to feel more awake and energetic everyday? As I mentioned, I have tried things, but they haven't seemed to have worked. I just always seem out of energy and tired.

Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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most important thing, try waking up the same time every day. even weekends. it makes an incredible difference.

you've been told that's a healthy breakfast. it's actually terrible. try either oatmeal or eggs. cereal/waffles/pop tarts are all full of carbs that will cause you to crash almost right away. the o.j. makes it worse.

if you don't like the skinniness, you'll have to lift weights.
 

swifTy

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your on the growth at 17. would account for some of the tiredness.
 

KontrollerX

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Listen to Throttle.

He is exactly right.

I know because I actually switched to an eggs breakfast and scheduled myself to wake up at about the same time every day during my last big health kick and I felt better than ever and I had that same unrelenting tiredness you speak of until I did that.
 

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Oh, and give up caffeine entirely if at all possible (as he slugs back another diet dew...hey, we all have vices!) If you don't drink caffeine, esp. after dinnertime, you might look into other things that might be disrupting your sleep.

Otherwise, judging from the other thread, you have a melancholic disposition. You need to find some things you enjoy & can look forward to, and embrace them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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