"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Human Sex Trafficking

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While dealing wth my brother's ordeal, while to staying in a hotel for a week I have been introduced to the world of sex trafficking

I met these girls,5girls in one ****ing room, one of them pregnant, all ****ing strangers all day long and don't have enough money to even buy cigerattes. One was 19 and hadn't eaten in about a week. One was prengant and got the **** beat out of her yestefday because she didnt' want to turn a trick because... she's pregnant. It takes a lot to get to me but that **** got to me hard.. and as a man, you got to stand for some ****. There are very few absoulte rights and wrongs but this is one of the and there was no way I was going to just leave and let this continue.

I also know enough about cops to know they really wouldn't give a **** or they would just arrest everyone. and once out he ould beat the **** out of all of them again.

if i could have put a bullet in h is head and still go to heaven and not go to jaijl i would ahve done it and not hesitated. He's snot even a good pimp lol i had to pay for their ONE $70 dollar hotel room because they couldn't afford it. what the **** are you doing with all the money lol? why you got these girls tricking all day for nothing, literally. Ine was pregnant and i wasn't going to put her on the street. like oine of them gave him the money specifically to pay rent and he went out and bought drugs and just left the rest of them there.


and i mean, at least one of them knew the entire ordeal was stupid but felt trapped. what could she do? at one point i was going to and was very willing to get her another place somewhere else but what wiould she do for money and he would eventually find her.


I also felt really bad for the 19 year old, but hen yo talk to her you can tell she still looked at the lifetstyle as glamorous and wasn't ready to quit yet. The prengant one, the pimp was the father. she wasn't going anywhere. i didn't know the others.


But that one, iose who can, do. i can help you. dude litearlly checks on the girls every 5 mins. lol, so what i did was i found one of their ads. i pretended i wnted to see another one of the girls across the city so he would hae to take them. so he leaves, i take the girl and her to the saftest place i know, my mom's house. she understood the situteation and even cooked for her. i made her throw her phone away and made her leave everything she had there i dont' know what h e has bugged or tracked or anything. litearlly bring nothing whatever yo uhave i can buy . r

then i called my wife and told her look do you trust me lol. she's like yeah what's up. i'm like so... i'm bringing a woman home lol. i told her and not only was she okay she waslike yo know that's why i married you. You are the ost caring person I know. I do have a big heart. I will go out of my way to helpl someone in need. Even more so, my wife knew she didn't have to tell me not to **** her lol and i knew i didn'ot hae to tell mmy wife i wassn't ****ing her my wife trusts me. I also had to explain to the girl that she doesnt' owe me anything. I don't want anything from her, no sexual favors, nothing.


We are in the air port terminal now at bush wating on a conneceting flight back to LA. Man, the look on her face when she realized we were in the air and she was 100% safe now, that sh didn't have to uck 10 ****s today... I don't know what relief looks like, but i'm pretty sure it's the look she had on her face. Now i can'ot gether to shut up lol. She's really excited to met my kids and my wife. ONeif the reasobns I connected with her over the ohters is you can tell she's not from the streets she has some edcation. she's a trained chef as well. I mean, we've all made mistakes one mistake should not mean you have to end up sucking 10 ****s a day in a room with 4 other girls for the rest of your life.


I told her point blank I new she was on ice i could tell the signs and i'm an ex user myself and that I have ONE rule that is not negotable no drugs. ever. you are done. i won't risk it, not for me or my familly. we talked about it and she agreed. We have more than enough room at my house **** she would h ave her own bathroom but going to just play it by ear. I dont' like the idea of h aving a maid i always found that as a demeaning profession. But she can cook. I told her as long as she's clean and honest, she can stay rent free for as long as she needs to. I dont' want you to leave here thinking ever again that you have to sell your body to eat or make money. You will have a real job when you leave.



I mean, i've paid for escorts before. i have no real qualms with high end escorting. But once you get p9ast that, it gets pretty shady. I mean, how can I suck 10 ****s in one day and SEE ike, 800 dollars but I have 20 dollars lol? that math doesn't add up. and it isn't like they don't KNOW it's messed p they just can't do anything about it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I told her point blank I new she was on ice i could tell the signs and i'm an ex user myself

bawhahaha!

Don't you listen to too $hort? There are all types of hoes, fine b!tches, and crack hoes, just look around and get it.

There are even hoes on plenty of fish, it's called sponsorship, they are looking for a $$$pon$or.

Market has a demand, and these hoes know it, they're not stupid.
 

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that's how i used to think until i saw it first hand. these girls really once they got in didnt have much of a choice. this girl that is here now was basically sleeing with men to support an entire group thats not in the sales brouchure

also after talking to her and getting to know how the sausage is made so to seak i honestly dont think i colud ever watch porn again.

actually a bit of a sticky situtatioun as litearlly the second we touched down in LA my sister called me and told me her dad had a stroke and my sissy is basically my oldest child i cant not be there for her but i am not going to take this girl back there and i have been neglecting bsiness stuff becasuse of my brother that i need to attend to priand ****.. im just ****ing tired. really really tired. and kkinda sick honestly coming down with the flu. so i had to tell my sister if she needs me i will come but i need to rest if i can. **** my own kids havent seen in since april i havent had sex with my wife since april i think we will take care of that tonight tho


women arent evil like this forum likes to make them out to be. if anything women are how they are because of our nature. the the y have the owert hey have because we give it to them.


the girl who i will justs call Ann but that isnt her real name,, is doing fine. her and my son watching sammari jack lol
 

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A pimp arrested by the police is often the boyfriend or husband or driver of the hooker. Any guy in the life of a hooker who is not a customer is treated as a pimp. I told this to a good friend and he told me he has a friend who was arrested for being a pimp simply because he agreed to drive a girl somewhere.

The Honest Courtesan estimates…

"American studies show that fewer than half of all streetwalkers have pimps, and of those that do the majority of them control the pimps rather than the other way around. The English Collective of Prostitutes estimates that fewer than 10% of English streetwalkers are encumbered by a “heavy ponce” (abusive pimp) and French estimates are lower still, about 5% of streetwalkers. Using the English estimate as a median between the higher American and lower French figures, and applying it to our standard 15% estimate of the percentage of all wh0res who are streetwalkers, we arrive at a figure of roughly 1.5% of all Western prostitutes who are controlled by pimps. This is a far cry from the “vast majority” claimed by the anti-wh0re propagandists who infest government and the feminist movement, and similar to most estimates of the number of women with abusive husbands or boyfriends."

Http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2010/07/27/pimps

Human sex trafficking can be a hooker who moves her own ass from one state to another.

I've banged nine escorts. The first two were at an agency. Then, after a many year break, I've banged seven independent girls, the kind who require references from other escorts before they'll agree to see you. They've almost all have been in some kind of relationship, boyfriends, married swingers, sugar daddy. Only one was single (who admitted she cheated on all her boyfriends and being an escort was her "dream job").
 

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Update:

. outside of my two kids well really three including Jason the one from big brother big sister, this is the most self satisfied I've felt in a while


It wasn't always easy with Steph. She ran off once because I scolded her for something verbally and she thought I was gonna beat her and I had to explain to her normal people can disagree and not hit each other



She became part of the family. When we went to del Mar last mont
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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