Almost_Famous
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Ok. I think the title says it all - where do I go on from here? I'll be 16 this october :rockon:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Huh?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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great :crazy:
the point is. i'm reading the bible and I jsut don't feel comfy going out and saying hi... Yeah I know - it's supposed to get you out of the 'comfy zone' but sheesh I'm just 16. Can I do that? (a simple yes would clear all misunderstandings)
So basically. Week one. I come. I say hi. I leave. Repeat 50 times?
the point is. i'm reading the bible and I jsut don't feel comfy going out and saying hi... Yeah I know - it's supposed to get you out of the 'comfy zone' but sheesh I'm just 16. Can I do that? (a simple yes would clear all misunderstandings)
So basically. Week one. I come. I say hi. I leave. Repeat 50 times?
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Oh and I wondered. Is there a bootcamp going on soon?
Also. I have one question I just can't get the answer to. Is HS Bible a shorter bible or is it a different bible suited for high school. I'm ready to go onto the work - that was the only question
Also. I have one question I just can't get the answer to. Is HS Bible a shorter bible or is it a different bible suited for high school. I'm ready to go onto the work - that was the only question
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Read the DJ bible first. Helped me out some. Then read the forum
Read the DJ bible first. Helped me out some. Then read the forum
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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can u faggots get a life....i cant believe this thread...."huh?"....and thats it??? wtf u ****in losers who never get *****, stop talkin to each other!