“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hug or shake hand

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BES

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dj i need your help
ok we are meeting in a dine so i need advice. met her in the internet so
i am going to see her the first time so
hug or shake hands introducing myself.

compliment and start convo?

please any tips at all would be appreciated.
any tips on the convo?
do and dont please.
i really need to impress this chick really bad and i want to feel i am the great catch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJLegion

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Originally posted by BES
dj i need your help
ok we are meeting in a dine so i need advice. met her in the internet so
i am going to see her the first time so
hug or shake hands introducing myself.

compliment and start convo?

please any tips at all would be appreciated.
any tips on the convo?
do and dont please.
i really need to impress this chick really bad and i want to feel i am the great catch.
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If she does look exactly like the picture she sent you then you can start the convo off by saying your grateful that she looks like her picture; that you've met too many people who send you pictures when they were 30 lbs less, blah blah blah.
 
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octane_orphan

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I wouldnt start off with a hand shake :s ... far to formal ... just smile say hi and take the convo from there... a hug goodbye aint really my thing, a kiss goodbye is more manly, if you ask me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My 2c...

This isnt a big deal.. I say trake command, and if u like what u see, then hug her! Then start the convo with her... the more kino u get going with her right from the start, the more comfortable she will feel around you, and the quicker she will GET to being comfortable around you... so yes, i say that a hug IS prefferable (if u like what u see)


Laterz...
 
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Look her up and down. If you like what you see, go for a hug. If you don't, go for a handshake and cut the date short.

Never EVER go for a handshake with a girl you like and are attracted to.
 
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Originally posted by BES
i really need to impress this chick really bad and i want to feel i am the great catch.
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Oxymoron.

DJLegion had a good idea, although I wouldn't recommend telling her that you've met a lot of people off of the internet. Some people, even though they're doing it themselves, still think it's slightly "weird"...
 
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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Look her up and down. If you like what you see..
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lol thats the main determining factor in deciding what to do... i agree.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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You guys are acting like this is a freggin Job Interview.

Regardless if she is a fat pig, HB 10 or has the looks that reminds you of your mother...

HAVE FUN WITH IT.

All this over analyzing is stupid and worthless. Its like you're plotting war. You've got one senerio if she's fat, another if she's ugly, another if she's fat and ugly, another is she's cute, and kinda fat, and YET another if she's cute, ugly, kinda fat, kinda cute...wtf?

I guarantee this...if you are C/F, light hearted, and keep the date fun and interesting FOR BOTH OF YOU....it really won't matter what she looks like. YOU ARE THE ONE IN CONTROL OF THE DATE. And you are just being the DJ you would be to ANY woman.

Worse case senerio is that you don't dig her. Big whoop. But, if you had fun on the date, that stuff will not matter. Why?

Because you can use this opportunity to field test all this BS everyone on this board is saying to you. KINO, C/F, confidence -- you become even MORE sharper...even if it means you practice on a 5. Trust me, when that 10 comes along, you'll thank that experience you had DJing that 5.

So stop over analyzing. There must have been something more than just her looks to have you want to meet her and her meet you. Maybe a good joke you guys told, maybe you both love horror movies, maybe you enjoy roller blading....regardless, go out, have fun, and enjoy this woman's company.

Its not marriage...its just a freggin DATE

SO HAVE FUN!
 
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